Monday 30 October 2006

Take every thoughts captive (Mandi)

Recently Blest posted about depression and how we should take control of our thoughts. Let me be honest — I said to myself, “I don’t struggle with depression….so this stuff doesn’t really apply to me.” Well God always has a way of bringing me back to reality. For the past couple of weeks I have had some completely irrational thoughts in my mind. These thoughts have nothing to do with my weight loss journey…rather they have caused me fear and panic and anxiety concerning my marriage. For my weight loss I am doing The Lord’s Table at www.settingcaptivesfree.com — I have not done a lesson now in about 3 weeks because I allowed pride to seep into my brain and felt I was doing great on my own. (Enter heavenly ZAP!!) I resolved yesterday that I would get back on track and yesterday’s lesson was on gluttony and slothfulness (not words we throw around too much these days….but we have to call a spade a spade). This morning Blest was inquiring how I was doing via email and I zipped off a reply to her. Then I opened up my lesson and it was precisely what I needed. It started off with the following:

When it comes to losing weight most of us will readily acknowledge that at times our minds are battlefields. We know we shouldn’t overeat but MAN that Stuffed Crust pizza looks good. We know we’ve had enough dinner but the thoughts of a delicious dessert seem to overwhelm us. Even if we resist the first thoughts they seem to keep coming at us, relentlessly bombarding us until we give in.

But, Mandi, as Christians we are not to be victims of these powerful thoughts, rather we are to take every thought captive to Christ. Let’s examine the Scriptures that teach this and then we will look at a quote from Max Lucado:

“For though we walk in the flesh, we do not war according to the flesh, for the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but divinely powerful for the destruction of fortresses. We are destroying speculations and every lofty thing raised up against the knowledge of God, and we are taking every thought captive to the obedience of Christ, and we are ready to punish all disobedience, whenever your obedience is complete” (2 Corinthians 10:3-6)……

Next, I want to show you a quote from Max Lucado that pretty well describes the “how to” of taking our thoughts captive to Christ. The examples he uses can be substituted with ones for our particular struggle. Here it is:

“. . . Your heart is a fertile greenhouse ready to produce good fruit. Your mind is the doorway to your heart - the strategic place where you determine which seeds are sown and which seeds are discarded. The Holy Spirit is ready to help you manage and filter the thoughts that try to enter. He can help you guard you heart. He stands with you on the threshold. A thought approaches, a questionable thought. Do you throw open the door and let it enter? Of course not. You ‘fight to capture every thought until it acknowledges the authority of Christ’ (2 Cor. 10:5, Phillips). You don’t leave the door unguarded. You stand equipped with handcuffs and leg irons, ready to capture any thought not fit to enter. For the sake of discussion, let’s say a thought regarding your personal value approaches. With all the cockiness of a neighborhood bully, the thought swaggers up to the door and says, ‘You’re a loser. All your life you’ve been a loser. You’ve blown relationships and jobs and ambitions. You might as well write the word bum on your resume, for that is what you are.’

“The ordinary person would throw open the door and let the thought in. Like a seed from a weed, it would find fertile soil and take root and bear thorns of inferiority. The average person would say, ‘You’re right, I’m a bum. Come on in.’ But as a Christian, you aren’t your average person. You are led by the Spirit. So rather than let the thought in, you take it captive. You handcuff it and march it down the street to the courthouse where you present the thought before the judgment seat of Christ.

“’Jesus, this thought says I’m a bum and a loser and that I’ll never amount to anything. What do you think?’ See what you are doing? You are submitting the thought to the authority of Jesus. If Jesus agrees with the thought, then let it in. If not, kick it out. In this case Jesus disagrees.

How do you know if Jesus agrees or disagrees? You open your Bible. What does God think about you? Eph. 2:10 is a good place to check: ‘For we are God’s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do’ (NIV). Or how about Romans 8:1: ‘There is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus’ (NIV)? Obviously any thought that says you are inferior or insignificant does not pass the test - and does not gain entrance. You have the right to give the bully a firm kick in the pants and watch him run.

“Let’s take another example. The first thought was a bully; this next thought is a groupie. She comes not to tell you how bad you are but how good you are. She rushes to the doorway and gushes, ‘You are so good. You are so wonderful. The world is so lucky to have you,’ and on and on the groupie grovels.

“Typically this is the type of thought you’d welcome. But you don’t do things the typical way. You guard your heart. You walk in the Spirit. And you take every thought captive. So once again you go to Jesus. You submit this thought to the authority of Christ. As you unsheathe the sword of the Spirit, his Word, you learn that pride doesn’t please God. ‘Don’t cherish exaggerated ideas of yourself or your importance’ (Rom. 12:3, Phillips). ‘The cross of our Lord Jesus Christ is my only reason for bragging’ (Gal. 6:14). As much as you’d like to welcome this thought of conceit into the greenhouse, you can’t. You only allow what Christ allows.

“The point is this. Guard the doorway of your heart. Submit your thoughts to the authority of Christ. The more selective you are about seeds, the more delighted you will be with the crop.”

Just Like Jesus
Max Lucado
Word Publishing
Nashville, TN.
Copyright 1998 by Max Lucado
Chapter Nine, “The Greenhouse of the Mind” (A Pure Heart) pages 177 - 182

One important thing I learned in this process is that it still is not enough just to take our thoughts captive, and to meditate on good and right things. We must go one step further and put what we are learning and meditating on into practice. For me this applies to so many areas of my life, especially my eating. I usually don’t turn to food because it is “calling me”….rather I turn to food because of the previous thoughts in the day about not being good enough, not being loveable, not being a good mom, etc. For me it seems the key is to take these thoughts captive and hold them up to the Word and see if they are still true. I would like to encourage anyone else who struggles with this to allow this group to help you. I propose that if I/you start having a thought try to take you captive then post it here. We can then put scripture in the comments that will show if the thought is in agreement with what the Lord says or not.

6 Comments »

  1. Mandi, Thank you so much for sharing with us. This is so what I need right now. Literally I’m tearing up over here. I’m on my way to check out the website and program that you are doing.

    Comment by Tami — October 31, 2006 @ 7:32 am

  2. You said, “We must go one step further and put what we are learning and meditating on into practice.”

    Mandi, that is just where God has had me for the past few weeks, too!!!!! I am so glad you wrote this post… (((((HUG)))))

    Also you said, “I propose that if I/you start having a thought try to take you captive then post it here. We can then put scripture in the comments that will show if the thought is in agreement with what the Lord says or not.”

    What a FABULOUS idea!!!!! BTW, I have missed you my dear!!!!!!!!!!!!! (((((ANOTHERBIGHUG)))))

    Comment by Leann — October 31, 2006 @ 7:41 am

  3. I totally agree with the “putting in to practice” thing. Not only in our weight-loss lives, but our spiritual lives as well. How many years have we known that the way to lose weight was eat less and move more, yet we continue to go in for second helpings and make our only exercise flipping channels with the remote control.

    As my mom used to say, if the Children of Israel had left that blood in a bucket by the front door it wouldn’t have done them any good - they had to apply it to the doorpost to get God’s protection!

    Comment by Melissa — October 31, 2006 @ 8:04 am

  4. What a wise mother Melissa!!!

    Comment by Tami — October 31, 2006 @ 8:24 am

  5. This scripture goes along well with this practice of doing and not just hearing:

    James 1:21
    Therefore, putting aside all filthiness and all that remains of wickedness, in humility receive the word implanted, which is able to save your souls. 22 But prove yourselves doers of the word, and not merely hearers who delude themselves. 23 For if anyone is a hearer of the word and not a doer, he is like a man who looks at his natural face in a mirror; 24 for once he has looked at himself and gone away, he has immediately forgotten what kind of person he was. 25 But one who looks intently at the perfect law, the law of liberty, and abides by it, not having become a forgetful hearer but an effectual doer, this man will be blessed in what he does.

    Comment by Mandi — October 31, 2006 @ 8:39 am

  6. Thanks for this post Mandi. I’ve read it a couple of times and there’s still more I can get from it. I definitely need to start being more active in what I let come into my mind and stay, and what I boot out!

    Comment by Debs — October 31, 2006 @ 2:12 pm

Happy, Happy, Joy, Joy. Happy, Happy, Joy!

Today was a horrid day. I spent most of it in the car (attorney, hubby can’t drive, living out in boondocks, etc.), and the kiddos weren’t too happy about that. But we did accomplish a lot.

Accident Update:

Saw the attorney. They are going to walk us through this thing. Tonight got call from driver’s insurance. Looks like someone is going to take responsibility. Praise the Lord! But you know, the Lord had brought me to a place where I said, “Okay, Lord. You did this for my good and your glory. What ever the outcome, I know what my God is like, and it is all good.” Isn’t it amazing what an accident can do for you?

Exercise Update:

I am getting a real live sergent major (to go along with the cyber blest one;-)). There is a tiny ladies fitness center nearby. The lady I talked to is hyped, and I think she will do me good. I will do the circuit and you can all so do pilates and other stuff. They help with nutrition information. There is even a place where my kids can play and I can watch them while I work out. It seems like they are really close knit, and since we have moved out in said boondocks, I hope I will make some friends. I am really hoping that this will help me with sleep issues. I believe this is what it will take for me in my situation. I need someone in my face, nicely, yet there physically. KWIM? I will be excited to share all I learn with you wonderful ladies.

LOVE, LOVE, LOVE:

All you ladies. It is so nice to have others praying and cheering you on through the ups and downs. Thank you!

3 Comments »

  1. Hmmm. I wonder if I can get ahold of my friend Carami and introduce you two when I’m there. You’d love her!

    And Weigh to Go!!

    Comment by blestwithsons — October 30, 2006 @ 6:58 pm

  2. Oohhh…I’m so excited for you!!!

    Comment by Tami — October 30, 2006 @ 7:28 pm

  3. Sorry about the bad start on the day but I am so excited God worked it out with the exercise, nutrition and such!!!!! (((((HUG)))))

    Comment by Leann — October 31, 2006 @ 7:47 am

For Laura

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Hot dog! Humph!! Bad Laura, Bad!!!

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  1. And if anyone else ever wants to use this picture and dedicate it to someone- you can. Just hit “browse all” in the images section (below the posting box) and you can find this pic!

    Comment by blestwithsons — October 30, 2006 @ 4:57 pm

  2. If this is what I get for just wanting a hot dog, I tremble and cower to think what would happen if I actually ate one!!

    Comment by lady laura — October 30, 2006 @ 5:11 pm

  3. Yeah!! Tremble and Cower!! I am blest - fear me and back away from the junk food! :lol:

    Comment by blestwithsons — October 30, 2006 @ 5:24 pm

  4. Now, now ladies…are we supposed to be having this much fun??? I sense lighter spirits! Blest, I need you here daily with me!! Just leave the club at home please.

    Comment by Tami — October 30, 2006 @ 7:26 pm

I'm feeling naughty today (blest)

Quote of the Day:

The chief excitement in a woman’s life is spotting other women who are fatter than she is. - Helen Rowland

:lol: Discuss….

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  1. I know, I know…it’s VERY wrong. But don’tcha think there is a skosh of truth in it? :wink:

    I’m reminded of an event I always meant to post about - happened a month or so ago. My mother-in-law told my husband that my sis-in-law has lost - like- 70 pounds. I must admit my first thought was “Oh MAN! Now I really have to work hard so I won’t be the fattest at the Christmas party!” :razz:

    Aint it awful?!!!!

    I am, of course, happy for my sis-in-law… :wink:

    Comment by blestwithsons — October 30, 2006 @ 1:57 pm

  2. Oh, you are SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO……BAD!!!!! ;)

    Comment by Leann — October 30, 2006 @ 2:04 pm

  3. I know I’m too good at looking at other people and criticising how they look, and carefully forgetting how I look. And then I remember and I’m like “Doh, really must do something about that” and so here I am…

    Comment by Debs — October 30, 2006 @ 2:35 pm

  4. I found myself always comparing myself to other “fat” woman. Always glad that “I wasn’t that big”…I was…just didn’t want to see it. I think or rather know that I still do that. I’m working so hard on it. There are so many reasons for all of us as to why we got where we got.

    Comment by Tami — October 30, 2006 @ 4:28 pm

  5. Now see… I do that. But it’s not all bad. I look at other women trying to get an accurate picture of what I look like. I don’t know about you all, but I have frequently thought I looked better than I did - only to be shocked by a photo. I used to point someone out to my hubby once in a while and say “Now, okay - am I as big as that?” sincerely wanting to know.

    Now I’m looking at fit women trying to find one that I can mentally point to and say “THAT is what I’m going to/want to look like” Haven’t found the right one yet. The skinny ones are too skinny!

    Comment by blestwithsons — October 30, 2006 @ 4:37 pm

  6. Ya’ll are being so nice and dignified about this so I’ll be the one to come out and admit that I have not only done it about other women’s bodies, but their hair, nails, clothes, and shoes too. Thoughts like, “She may have a cuter butt, but I have way cuter shoes.”

    And yeah, the photo thing. My mirrors must be magic or something ‘cuz I can go around thinking I am all that only to see a photo of myself that same day and be stunned, and not in a good way.

    Comment by lady laura — October 30, 2006 @ 4:52 pm

  7. Well now that is the only fun thing to do at the Marine Corps Ball when you’re not a drinker! My husband and I have been playing Rate The Dresses for YEARS!

    What gets me is the trend of putting on an exquisite gown and not doing your hair or your make-up. Wassup with that?! Just looks weird. If I’m going to do it - I’m going to do it right. It’s the one day a year I paint my nails. From top to toe, every inch is carefully thought out. You should see all the work I’m putting into making my Ball Jewelry!!

    Oy. I think I’m getting shallow. :razz:

    Comment by blestwithsons — October 30, 2006 @ 4:55 pm

  8. Blest,
    I’m jealous of the ball. My husband was a Navy man before I came along. I have always dreamed of having an occasion to get all done up for aside from our wedding and that was really simple. I want the gown, makeup, glitter and glamour!!

    Comment by Tami — October 30, 2006 @ 7:24 pm

Can you see my grinning? (Jana)

A lady at church yesterday, who I barely know, said, “Are you losing weight? You look great!”

That felt good!

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  1. YAYAYAYAY!! I LOVE SPUNKS!

    I think I may have had an indirect SPUNK yesterday. I haven’t been in my Sunday School class for several months- I’ve been going to worship team practice instead. But schedule changes left me confused about where to go -so I went back to class. I got in the room before my husband did - and the teacher, who normally greets everyone, said nary a word to me. I’m thinking maybe he wasn’t sure it was me!! I mean, maybe he just doesn’t like me…But I’d rather believe that he was thinking “I think that’s her -but it doesn’t look like her…??” and was afraid to say the wrong thing.

    I’m a nut. I admit it. :lol:

    Comment by blestwithsons — October 30, 2006 @ 12:40 pm

  2. Yay, go Jana :-)

    Comment by Debs — October 30, 2006 @ 1:45 pm

  3. WAYCOOL!!!!!!!!!!!

    Comment by Leann — October 30, 2006 @ 2:06 pm

  4. HOT DOG!!!!!

    Comment by Tami — October 30, 2006 @ 4:37 pm

  5. Hot dog?! Oh, please…. I would love a good dog right now.;)

    Yay, Jana!

    Comment by lady laura — October 30, 2006 @ 4:47 pm

Weighty Matters

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Let’s see now…what do the numbers tell us today? Do they tell us how much we are loved by our families? Loved by God? Do they tell us how talented we are, how much fun when we laugh, or how snuggly our hugs are?

Nope.

The numbers don’t tell us any of that! All the scale tells us is how we are doing with our food and exercise choices. (and sometimes it lies about that! Tricky little thing!) So don’t be afraid! Take a deep breath - then let it out cause air weighs something too and we don’t want that - and Get On That Scale! It’s weigh-in time ladies!!

This week’s prize comes from Kat! A mini-spa thingee from Burt’s Bees. I love that stuff!!

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  1. I’m down 3.4 pounds!!! I am very excited! I actually looked in the mirror yesterday, and I could actually see that my face looked skinnier. And my dad took pictures of us this weekend at the pumpkin patch and they looked good!

    Starting weight 215, total weight loss is 8.4 pounds!

    Comment by Kimberly — October 30, 2006 @ 7:36 am

  2. 207.5 which brings me down 1.5# for the week! Not too bad huh? I am now down a total of 21.5 pounds since starting this journey!!

    Comment by Tami — October 30, 2006 @ 8:05 am

  3. Friday’s Numbers: 256.6 / 206.6 / 135 - up .4

    Not too bad with AF and having visited the inlaws. Could have been ALOT worse.

    Comment by Blair — October 30, 2006 @ 9:10 am

  4. 212.8/183.6/135

    Down 2.2 lbs :grin: Total weight loss 29.2

    Comment by blestwithsons — October 30, 2006 @ 9:14 am

  5. I am so very close to a 10 pound loss!!! I broke the 155 barrier that I have struggled with and stayed there this week with a weigh-in this morning of 154.6.

    Goals for the week…

    * 75 ounces of water every day
    * get out and exercise at least 30 minutes a day every day this week
    * Go easy on the white food.

    163/154.6/135

    Comment by Leann — October 30, 2006 @ 9:40 am

  6. Way to go Kimberly and Tami!!!!!!!!! Tami 21.5 pounds is FABULOSO!!!!!

    Blair, that is good to hold on such a week. I hope my Thanksgiving with my parents is as successful!!! How the heck are ya doin’??? Been thinking about you bunches lately…

    WOOOOOHOOOOOO BLEST!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You guys would NOT believe how TOTALLY AMAZING she is lookin’… :D

    Comment by Leann — October 30, 2006 @ 9:44 am

  7. I have a prize - I can’t think of the name of it but it’s a mini spa thingie from Burt’s Bees….

    Wow - you guys are doing great. How would y’all like some humor/irony…..

    330.6 .1 up from my starting weight. I am past the angry/mad/disgusted/distressed at myself and looking at it as a God reminder…. without Him - I am up - and without Him - I’m worse. So I think this is just extremely hilarious (yes, I’m at THAT point) to see the irony at starting at square one because of my sin - and being up .1 .

    BUTTTT… looking forward to next Monday!

    Comment by Kat — October 30, 2006 @ 10:00 am

  8. I’m at 287.4 which is back up 1.6 (which is so much less than I deserve to be). However last week is over, I’m determined to start over.

    Comment by Debs — October 30, 2006 @ 11:13 am

  9. No change for the lady this week. Holding at 146.5.

    Comment by lady laura — October 30, 2006 @ 12:03 pm

  10. I am down .2, which isn’t a lot, but it’s something!

    Comment by Jana — October 30, 2006 @ 12:32 pm

  11. I am down 2 again this week…….

    Comment by Maria — October 30, 2006 @ 3:34 pm

  12. Not weighing in this week because I can’t bring myself to step on the scale in the afternoon. We just got home from a short vacation and it was really nice. I was a little too relaxed on the food choices, but it’s hard when you don’t have your own kitchen and the normal shopping choices. You guys are doing great! Keep up the good work ladies!

    Comment by Anita — October 30, 2006 @ 3:54 pm

  13. I’m not sure if this is just for members, but on the Weight Watchers scale I was down 4 1/4. A record for me! (That’s only 7 1/4 over 5 weeks, though - so I’m not real consistent.)

    Comment by Ellen — October 30, 2006 @ 4:18 pm

  14. Yay Ellen!! Nope, this isn’t just for members. As a matter of fact, participating in weigh-ins is one of the paths to becoming a member! :wink: Just ask Tami!

    What a great week for you! Congrats!

    And Maria! Hey Girl, You’re doing great!!!

    Comment by blestwithsons — October 30, 2006 @ 4:28 pm

  15. Ellen!!! Weigh to go! Please do join in with us on whatever topic. We are all on the same journey here! Just think…that’s 7 1/4 gone. They say that the slower it comes of the more likely it is to stay off.
    YAH!!! I’m doing a happy dance for Ellen.

    Comment by Tami — October 30, 2006 @ 4:31 pm

  16. I am holding steady at 181.4.

    Comment by Mandi — October 30, 2006 @ 5:37 pm

  17. I didn’t weigh this morning, but I will tomorrow. I had to go to the attorney this morning, but will explain more later.

    Comment by Leigh Ann — October 30, 2006 @ 6:36 pm

  18. So, one question… How much have we lost to date as a group??? I am curious to see how we are doing in that respect…

    Comment by Leann — October 30, 2006 @ 9:16 pm

  19. I am up 0.2 from last week, which leaves me at a total of 0.4 down over the last four weeks (since I got my new fancy scale and started officially keeping track). But overall, being down 0.4 with the very, very hectic month of work (and more stress-eating than i’d like to admit) — is a great feeling. now just another 4 to go in the next 2 months to reach my christmas/new years goal!! off i go….

    great job everyone!!

    Comment by anne — October 30, 2006 @ 10:49 pm

  20. Had computer trouble yesterday - I tried to comment, but the computer did a crash thing again, and I gave up. So here I am today thinking we’ve patched it together for a bit longer.

    but to business - I’m weighing in at 250 yesterday which is up 2, I think, and I’m not surprised. But I am making changes and should be watching the scale drop again next week. I’m grateful to this group for keeping me steady during this time, and grateful that I’m not looking at much worse!

    Comment by Tracy — October 31, 2006 @ 7:35 am

  21. Better late then never, right?
    I am only down .4 lbs. Better than up though. Last night I had lost a total of 29 pounds. Hopefully next week I can at least hit the 30 mark, maybe more. I am bunkering down this week. It has been so wild and crazy around here lately that I honestly can’t believe I lost that little bit (I really should have gained!) But hey, I’ll take it!
    Weigh to go ladies! I have missed coming by lately but I promise to do better! Forgive me, please?!

    Comment by Angie — October 31, 2006 @ 11:49 am

  22. Up 0.2. And I’m so sorry for being so late with weigh-in! I weighed on Monday, but forgot to post - our week has been crazy.

    Comment by Carrie K. — November 1, 2006 @ 11:30 pm

Sunday 29 October 2006

Step away from the

line.

So – how close and long can a person get to a line without crossing over? How about if a person is on the right side of the line (vs. the wrong – not the left side J ) and is so close that their shoe doesn’t “totally” cross over – are they still in the “right”?

Well – not for me. I’ve been quiet, distant, and afraid this past month of October. After sitting down yesterday (Saturday) and being honest with my self and my list of goals – being within a millimeter of crossing “that line” has been wrong, non-productive, and in a sense a lie of deceit. (Insert note – our Ladies Bible Study on Thursdays just started “Lies Women Believe” Wow.). Quiet and distant because I’ve been riding the line. No, not officially off the bandwagon – just pushing my limits. Afraid, because I’ve been uncommitted to God to beg for the help I need in this weigh loss journey – fight.

Do you wonder what I mean by being on the line but not crossing over? Here are a few examples:

#1 – Working out for the designated time. But doing it listlessly, not with the purpose of getting worked up and glistening. Plodding along…

#2 – Sticking to the diet – but still making bad choices. Did you know you could do that? Sure you can – by choosing to eat another piece of chicken and avoiding fresh vegetables.

#3 – By getting an average of 4-5 hours a sleep of night…. For over 30 days – no naps.

#4 – Not taking my vitamins. Oh, and yes, doing that three times a day would definitely put me up at my necessary water intake.

#5 – Not daily beseeching God for grace to get through the day as a happy child of the King. Not praying for each one of you and selfishly looking at my problems/struggles A.L.L. of the time.

Now it is time for the most painful, horrible admission: This past Monday after weigh in – I crossed the line and have been living in sinful oblivion for 6 days. There will be massive setbacks on Monday for weigh-in – I can tell… oh how I can tell in so many different areas and ways.

But the positive side to all this…. And yes, there is one (ok – several, but I’ll just name one!). I have had this person email me several times out of the blue – almost like a little voice of conscience saying, “Hey girl, where are you?” and then “Ok, where ARE YOU?” Yes this internet voice has scared me… but not like you think…. I’ve been scared because she knows how I know – that if you don’t have fruits of loosing weight while saying you are dieting and exercising – the odds are good that the good ole dividing line has either been crossed or you are in danger of crossing it. I can now say this voice of reason has been used of God in nudging to writing this post.

So Ladies- I’m coming to you bared (again), and slowly, slowly backing away from that line that at first was ridden, eventually crossed, and then leaped back.

I need to start at square one in my training and mindset…..but I’m back.

5 Comments »

  1. Super De Duper tremenjously BIG hugs going out to you Kat!! And a round of applause too. Way to step up and put it all out there!!!

    LOVE YOU!!!!

    Comment by blestwithsons — October 29, 2006 @ 1:05 pm

  2. I’ve been so over that line this week, but I’m back. And I salute you Kat for having the courage to write this post.

    Comment by Debs — October 29, 2006 @ 2:04 pm

  3. Thank you so much for the love - and support. But just for the love - it really does mean a lot to me.

    Comment by Kat — October 30, 2006 @ 9:34 am

  4. Yeah! Welcome back to the other side of the line! :-) It is so easy to stand at the very edge. Thanks for being bold in sharing where you are in this.

    Comment by Anita — October 30, 2006 @ 3:58 pm

  5. You mean there is a line? It must be so far behind me that I crossed it years ago. I too have got my motivation back (I lose it so easily.) You are an inspiration.

    Comment by Leigh Ann — October 30, 2006 @ 6:33 pm

Saturday 28 October 2006

It is too quiet around here (blest)

Well, let’s see…. To answer your questions Debs - I took the Lion post down because no one posted recipes — so the Lion was sad and still hungry. But I didn’t post recipes either, so shame on me!

If you want a whole host of smilies, including the laughing smiley, go here.

So how’s everyone doing this weekend? I think I’m finally getting the cold that I’ve been trying to get for a month now - or maybe that means it’s finally gotten me. :eek:

I spent the whole afternoon traipsing round the mall trying on Ball Gowns. I thought I had my dress, but reconsidered. Way too much cleavage for a Southern Baptist. :razz: I bought another dress today, and I LOVE it. Don’t worry, you’ll see it when the time comes. Oh, and I had the thrill of trying on AND zipping up several 14s today. They weren’t quite ready for the public eye- but at least I didn’t look like a stuffed sausage!!

Let’s see… after the gown hunt ended, I went to the Clark’s store and got some shoes. Even my feet were fat before - I couldn’t fit into many of the cute styles. Now I can try on everything! I got a really jazzy pair of black ankle boots and a pair of brown clogs. Both of them have, like, two inch wedge heels - so I get to find out what it’s like to be average height…almost.

Now I’m absolutely exhausted and I really feel like I’m getting sick. The kids are off to bed any minute now and the hubby and I will watch more of our current addiction…Combat! It’s a great WWII show from the early 60s. I almost love it more than my husband does! Netflix has it if anyone wants to check it out.

So what have you been doing?

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  1. Can’t wait to see the ball gown!! :) We had an exciting weekend of sorting through the girls winter clothes and lots and lots of laundry!! :)

    Comment by stephanie — October 29, 2006 @ 5:34 am

  2. Watch out for the “krauts”. We watched that all the time when we were growing up. Little did I know that I would end up marrying a full-blooded German. Just one of life’s little twists.

    Comment by Leigh Ann — October 29, 2006 @ 10:49 am

  3. Yeah I’m a solid 50% German myself. But the other half is British, Irish and Cherokee…so I’m your typical American mutt. :wink:

    Comment by blestwithsons — October 29, 2006 @ 1:15 pm

  4. *ahem - clearing throat* Somebody has traded shopping for food… just sayin’ ;)

    My shoulder feels better, btw… I can move my arm again. Got a cortisone shot in the shoulder and a horrid anti-inflammatory that made me feel really weird so I have NOT taken it today and have felt pretty good. I think I will just take ibuprofen since the swelling has gone way down. It is tendonitus (msp???) btw… :) Thanks for prayers and talk to you later.

    Comment by Leann — October 29, 2006 @ 6:21 pm

  5. I can quit anytime I want!!!!

    :lol:

    I’m not denying anything. But in my defense, I will say that…um…well…I can’t say that I NEEDed the shoes, but it has been a few years since I got my trusty Land’s End mocs -and my tastes have changed. I just want to be hip and cool and look good - is that so wrong? :roll:

    Comment by blestwithsons — October 29, 2006 @ 6:26 pm

  6. Speaking of hip and cool… We got to church today and the couple that had given us tickets to the concert got to spend a bit of time with Mercy Me after the concert and brought JoNathan a little “momento” from the concert. You know the list of songs they post on the stage for the sets they do? Well, JoNathan now OWNS that!!!!! Yes, he got the one and only set sheet from Mercy Me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :D

    Comment by Leann — October 29, 2006 @ 6:49 pm

Friday 27 October 2006

Checking in (stephanie)

I’ve been quiet around here lately. :) I look at everyone’s successes here and I have to admit, I’m a little sad that I’m not losing now, too. (Not that I’m not super-duper ecstatic that we are having another baby, but I’m wondering if there will be anything left of y’all next year when Lorri & I need you!) :)

That said, things have been going fairly well with pregnancy and diet. During the first trimester, I tend to not watch what I eat as much … mostly because NOTHING sounds good and that’s when I tend to drop weight. I’m doing good to just be hungry. I had my 12 week appointment this Tuesday, learned I’ve only gained 1 pound so far in 12 weeks (woot!) and heard the sweet swishing sounds of a new baby heartbeat. God has been good to our family. Now as I’m heading out of this trimester, I need FOCUS on eating better. Our current baby is about ready to move to table food and for her sake and mine, it’s time to start pushing the veggies and good stuff. :) We will all benefit from that!lady godivavideo tawneegirls hottiepreteen toplesslipstick lesbianspetite girlasian upskirtmom lesbian Map

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  1. I’m pretty sure I’ll still be around then - I’ve got a lot of weight to lose! I’m glad everything is going well with the pregnancy. Keep up the good work ;-)

    Comment by Debs — October 27, 2006 @ 2:27 pm

  2. What happened to the lion? And where did everybody go? This has been a really quiet week on the whole. Come back people, I need you :-)
    Oh, and another question - how do you get your smiley to have a really big laughing mouth rather than just a small smile? (You know, one of those really important questions of life!)

    Comment by Debs — October 28, 2006 @ 11:12 am

  3. Don’t worry Steph! Not only will some team members still be working towards their goals, but I imagine we’ll have new members too! My e-pal Bethany should be having her new daughter any day now and plans to join us in the new year…I’m sure there will be others! You’re doing GREAT, by the way!

    Comment by blestwithsons — October 30, 2006 @ 8:12 pm

Thursday 26 October 2006

I'm a wreck (Leigh Ann)

We were in a wreck on Monday. Someone backed out, without looking or stopping, into the road we were driving down. Swerving to miss him (he still hit me) I ran into a tree. The kids were buckled in and fine. I got some bruises and aches. The van is totalled, but that is the good news. The bad news, I am still trying to come to terms with. The guy driving the car only had a driver’s permit, no license. The car he was driving belonged to his 14 year-old girlfriend’s mom. The 14 year-old gave the guy the keys to the car. Mom said he didn’t have permission to drive the car, so mom’s insurance says they will not pay for damages (he was ticketed for contributing to the accident, I was not). We were advised to get our insurance company to seek repayment from the other company. While seeking to do this, we found out that our insurance had expired. We have no idea how that happened. We moved earlier this spring and think that there was a mail mix up with the bill. But we have to prove that we had a mix-up in order to be reinstated. The only other solution is that I threw 4 statements away from these people, yet payed the 5th one on our car. This is hitting me really hard because I try my best to keep on top of things, and keep asking myself how this happened. I feel so stupid. Only a moron would not know that her insurance had expired. How could anyone be that stupid. And, honestly, there is no good answer. (I’m doing the work. I’m babystepping.) I just want to go to sleep and wake up when this is all over. That is another thing. I am having problems sleeping and taking care of the kids is wearing on me big time. Markus took some time off work but was still working from home and we were both trying to clear all this mess up. We are now going to see a lawyer, because, apart from our insurance difficulties, the parties responsible for this accident are not taking responsibility.

The Lord is teaching me through this though. I am learning not to put my trust in insurance or lawyers or my own efforts to stay on top of things. This is from God’s good hand for a good reason, my good. I am learning to tie myself to that truth and cling to it when my mind starts going down the “why” and “what” part for the millionth time.

Markus has decided that I need to sign up for Curves for several reasons:regular exercise with variety, a chance to have a break at least 3 nights a week, an improvement to my sleep problem through exercise, in short, he want a sane wife back. I think now, after this shake-up, I need this even more.

Your prayers are greatly appreciated. I know how much worse it could have been. The Lord is very good and I realize that. I hate that this is such a big deal to me when others are going through things much worse. I think it is just because it is something more to deal with that has been added to a pile that I feel like I am about collapse under. I am learning to “roll my burdens on the Lord, so He will sustain me.

Thanks for letting me share.

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  1. Leigh Ann,

    {{Hugs}} to you. I can see how someone would not know their insurance had expired. I barely give it a thought, except to deduct the payment from my checking account since it is direct withdrawal. One month of not paying attention and I could be without insurance and not have a clue!

    Praying for you!

    Comment by lady laura — October 26, 2006 @ 9:44 pm

  2. I’m letting out a big sigh for you. It will be okay whatever the outcome.

    Comment by Tami — October 27, 2006 @ 6:11 am

  3. LeighAnn - I am so sorry that all of those crazy things are happening to your family right now. The Lord is so good and faithful and I know He will pull you up.

    Was this kid on his parent’s insurance policy?? In Ohio you are not allowed to have any type of a permit, license, etc. w/o proof of insurance. I always thought if I was in an accident in my mom’s car it would be my own personal insurance that would cover me…not my mother’s….so if he was under his parent’s policy wouldn’t that cover the accident??

    Comment by Mandi — October 27, 2006 @ 6:29 am

  4. Oh Leigh Ann, I’m so glad you guys are okay!!!! And I’m sorry about all the post-accident trauma. I’ll be praying too!

    Comment by blestwithsons — October 27, 2006 @ 7:30 am

  5. In SC the insurance of the car involved in the accident is supposed to be responsable. Since the guy driving the car was the boyfriend and didn’t have permission to use the car (per mom of girlfriend–even though girlfriend gave boyfriend the keys–I still think that would make mom responsible for daughter’s actions) the insurance is saying they are not responsible. It might end up where the guy’s parent’s insurance will end up footing the bill.
    But like I said, the Lord is showing me that even when I think I have got it all together and can handle anything that is thrown at me, He is the only one that I can absolutly trust in.
    Thanks for your prayers and concern.
    Leigh Ann

    Comment by Leigh Ann — October 27, 2006 @ 8:25 am

Confession of a dark legacy (LLaura)

I have mentioned before that I am not now at my heaviest. I don’t even know what I weighed at that time. I only know that though I had always been something like a size 12, I was more like an 18, slipping into a 20. If I felt like going to all the trouble of scanning a picture, I would show you what that looked like on me. But, I don’t, so I won’t. ;)

Something that I remember from those bigger days was that I was overall plump. I carried my extra weight in democratic proportion. Thusly, there were no “problem areas”. Now that I am no longer a size 18, but also no longer the size 6 I became, I cannot say the same. Now I can clearly see which parts of my body are hording fat and which are so very eager to see it go. My genes are showing. It is a curse upon me.

If my mom could see me now, she would categorize me as one of those dreaded women with thunder thighs, something she prized herself for having avoided. (When we would watch beauty pageants growing up, she would give a running commentary on who had those thunder thighs, and who should therefore be summarily disqualified. I was trained in the finer points of thunder-thighedness and know whereof I speak.)

Not only that, but I also inherited the annoying fat-stash of the upper arms and, get this, the knees. Yes, I have fat knees. Even when I was a slimmer me, I had some pudge pooled up around my knees, but now I have a good handful on each. sigh

I am trying to make peace with these hindrances to beauty and slimness. I know that it is useless to fight the genetic code. I know this because my lean and taut ancestors kept their knees from public view and encased those flappy arms in cloth. Mini-skirts and spaghetti straps were not shunned due to modesty, but because they loved others too much to subject them to such unpleasantness. They thought of others before themselves.

That part of my family legacy I embrace. Some things should only be seen by those who look with the eyes of love. But I cannot keep the secret any longer. Shame breeds in darkness. And so I say, let there be light: We have fat arms and knees.
I hope my family will forgive me.

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  1. Am I supposed to be laughing? Cuz I am!! Cool post, Laura. Thank you!!!

    Comment by blestwithsons — October 26, 2006 @ 9:15 am

  2. Blest–it was a hope that it would be found funny. I was not so confident at to categorize it under Funnies though… just in case it flopped.

    Comment by lady laura — October 26, 2006 @ 10:01 am

  3. Made me smile too :-)

    Comment by Debs — October 26, 2006 @ 2:22 pm

A blog first (blest)

For me anyway. I’ve never done a Thursday Thirteen before!

Thirteen Things About the Last Three Months

In the last three months…

1. I have had almost no sugar or white flour. And no potatoes or white rice. I haven’t missed them at all.

2. I have exercised 4-6 times a week - EVERY week. And I think I’ve come to like it! :shock:

3. I have gone down at least two clothing sizes. From a Lane Bryant 18 - which is more like a 20 - to a regular misses 16 petite. Yeehaw! And might I add Yippee Skippee.

4. I have found muscles and energy that I never knew I had and I think I may actually have collar bones!

5. I have enjoyed the comradery of the fabulous ladies here at OWOA!! :grin:

6. I have gone from days where no vegetable or fruit crossed my lips to routinely getting five or more servings of veggies a day.

7. I have found out how incredibly yummy apples are when you’re not accustomed to cookies and candy.

8. I have broken a habit established through four pregnancies of having to eat before bedtime.

9. I have started liking the face in the mirror! It’s amazing how big your eyes and lips can look when you get some weight off your face!

10. I have come to believe that I really truly am going to get this weight off and find out what it’s like to live as an energetic fit and healthy person. (barring some unforeseen event, of course)

11. I’ve saved a lot of money on eating out, buying tortilla chips, Pepsi, and Starbucks Cafe Mochas. On the other hand, I spent quite a bit on beads and bags of Starbucks to brew at home. I mean really, if you’re not going to eat all the treats, you ought to at least have good coffee - especially when you drink it black! And the beads give me something to do with my hands besides lifting them to my mouth! :lol:

12. I’ve tried not to buy too many new clothes, but it’s hard to resist! Have I mentioned that this is my new favorite place to shop?! Today is the last day for getting 50% off your entire order - use code WJH2245

13. I’ve lost 28.4 pounds. That’s over a third of my goal - gone. Thank God!!!

As I’ve said, I’ve never done this Thursday thing before. I don’t know all the proper procedure… So I’m just a-gonna say that if you want to see some more of these thirteen type people, go see Carol. And of course, all my wonderful OWOA pals, if you feel like putting up a 13 of your own - GO FOR IT!! :grin:

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  1. Yay, go Blest! You’re doing so well, and a real inspiration to me (and loads of others I’m sure). Keep up the good work :-)

    Comment by Debs — October 26, 2006 @ 2:24 pm

  2. I’ve just found your blog- and love it!! I love your TT also. :) Inspiration– certainly what I am needing right now. :)

    Comment by froglegs — October 26, 2006 @ 3:55 pm

  3. Good stuff, blest!! You are an inspiration.

    Comment by lady laura — October 26, 2006 @ 9:46 pm

Wednesday 25 October 2006

I WANT IT Wednesdays (blest)

Yeah well… you ladies left me hanging last week. But that’s okay! I’m not giving up yet!!! It’s I Want It Wednesday again. Time again to look down the road and imagine what it will be like in Fit-Land! Let’s see…what do I want today?

This time next year, I want to be Ball Dress shopping. I don’t want to have to start a month or more in advance because of the challenges involved in finding a plus size ball gown that doesn’t look like it was made by Omar the Tentmaker. I want to walk into the stores, snatch handfuls of pretty dresses off the racks, go into the dressing room and try them all on - and have them all fit! Then I want to have the delicious dilemma of deciding which one I like best - instead of simply buying the only one that fit and look halfway decent.

I will say, that in a way this happened this year. Since I’m actually back in “normal” sizes, I did have more choices and I did get to pick between more than one gown. But there were SO many more gorgeous choices a few more sizes down… And so many more choices if my upper arms were suitable for the public eye.

Oh. And a more immediate fantasy… A few of my husband’s coworkers saw me at the beginning of this journey - when I had lost about 7 pounds. Many more of them have not seen me since a picnic many months ago. I want to see some stunned faces at the Ball. I want it bad! Shallow, eh? :lol: The only semi-bummer is that many of them know I’ve been losing weight because my husband told them. But that’s actually a good thing - cause if he hadn’t been bragging about me at work I wouldn’t know he was proud of me at all.

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  1. Well last week I wanted to be less tired, and I am. Hmmm, what else do I want? At the minute I’ve got a real craving for chocolate, but I know I don’t really want it ;-)
    I want to be able to see all my extended family at Christmas (which I will do) and for them to be able to see a difference in me and my weight (rather than just me feeling the difference by doing my belt up tighter and on the scales). I think that makes sense.

    Comment by Debs — October 25, 2006 @ 7:20 am

  2. Indeed it does!! I know exactly what you mean! I was waiting for the day when people would start spontaneously saying “Have you lost weight?!” Oh it’s marvelous!!

    Now. Here is my rule for cravings. If you want it that bad…DON’T HAVE IT!! It’s kinda like you shouldn’t drink alcohol if you feel like you need a drink, know what I mean? (I don’t drink, myself, but it’s still a good analogy :wink: ) When you can choose to enjoy a small taste of dark chocolate without it being something you feel like you just have to have… then you’re in charge!!

    Comment by blestwithsons — October 25, 2006 @ 7:24 am

  3. I want it! We are going to disneyland in the spring, and I want to be able to run around the park, and ride all the little kiddie rides! You have to be skinny to fit on those rides, and I want to be able to ride Peter Pan with my children!

    The next one is real vain, I know, but I want to get a new hubby. I can’t for six months, so that definitly gives me time!

    Comment by Kimberly — October 25, 2006 @ 7:30 am

  4. I want it all!!! By this time next year I want to look at pictures of my and not recognize who I was. I want to walk into the store…any store and grab a size 8 and look great. I want to look good in anything (within reason ladies!) and not feel like a frump!! I want to have won the victory of food, cravings and guilt.

    Comment by Tami — October 25, 2006 @ 10:10 am

Tuesday 24 October 2006

Are there any rocks ahead? (blest)

Name that movie

Okay….so next week is Halloween National Candy Day, and then comes Thanksgiving Turkey Day and Christmas The Month of Sugar Plums. Yeah, I’d say there are rocks ahead.

I believe that when it comes to our weight loss goals, advance planning and advance decision making is half - maybe even three-fourths- of the battle. So let’s start talking.

What pitfalls do you see ahead for the holiday season? What temptations do you think are going to be hardest for you? A certain gathering? A certain traditional food? Don’t worry about solutions today - let’s just start naming the problems so we can start planning our attack. We’re in this war together!

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  1. Pitfalls for me will be Turkey Day, which I celebrate twice. Both of the ladies hostessing are great cooks in that their food is yummy, but they have never heard of cooking healthy. The three major food groups are all there will be: sugar, butter, and salt. For balance there might be some lard.

    Did I mention that these two celebrations fall within two days of each other?

    Comment by lady laura — October 24, 2006 @ 11:51 am

  2. I have not been able to cook a traditional Thanksgiving or Christmas meal in a couple years. I was 8 and 9 months prego the last 2 years at each holiday. We love it all…the stuffing, yams, potatoes, turkey, gravy, this awesome maple pumpkin pie I make, green bean cassorole, homemade rolls, pumpkin cheese cake, gravy, more potatoes, stuffing, more turkey…I was so looking forward to cooking all this yummy stuff this year…at least once.

    Comment by Tami — October 24, 2006 @ 12:18 pm

  3. Halloween should be ok,because candy has lost ALL it’s appeal. Thanksgiving I’m going to TRY to make it as lowcarb as possible. I found a sugarfree recipe for cranberry sauce. The mashed potatoes and gravy will be the hardest…

    Christmas is the hardest with making sugar cookies, and pumpkin bread. I’ve decide to allow myself only one day to enjoy those goodies, instead of the full two weeks. My hardest thing is that once I cheat, I have a hard time getting back on the diet.

    Comment by Kimberly — October 24, 2006 @ 12:52 pm

  4. Pitfalls for me…
    November…December…
    ;-)

    Comment by Ellen — October 24, 2006 @ 3:01 pm

  5. Halloween is no problem for us. We don’t have kids so there is no reason to have all of that candy in the house. BUT, we are spending Thanksgiving with my family this year and none of them know how to eat healthy. So, we need to build up our defenses now in preparation! I did offer to cook for my Dad and his wife and they are going along with it. But my Mom will cook a dinner too and hers will be more scary calorically. And in general, they both keep junk food in the house. So, I’m going to have to get in the practice of just saying NO!

    Comment by Anita — October 24, 2006 @ 4:25 pm

  6. Kimberly, I’m right there with you. Jeff’s mom was in town for 10 days and now I’ve really struggled the last 2 weeks to get up and going again. I told my husband this evening to make me get up with him (5 am YUCK!!!!!) no matter how ugly I may be. That is the only chance I get to exercise.

    Comment by Tami — October 24, 2006 @ 7:16 pm

  7. It’s gonna be Christmas that’s hard for me - well, we don’t have thanksgiving, and I don’t think we make such a thing of Halloween either. Actually I personally hate Halloween, it’s such a yucky concept. I’ve found it great the years when I#ve been able to get involved with a ‘light party’ - run by our church to give Christian kids an alternative thing to do.

    Anyway, I was talking about Christmas - lots of yummy but vey unhealthy food available. In fact I’ve found it tricky any sort of party thing that I’ve been to.

    Comment by Debs — October 25, 2006 @ 12:57 am

  8. We don’t do Halloween, so it’s not a problem. (other than the fact that we go out to eat to avoid the crush that invades our neighborhood. If we don’t get out by 4:30, forget it, we’ll be trapped. Only one way in and out of the subdivision…)

    Thanksgiving is just my family and my FIL at our house - I’m cooking. It will basically be a regular meal, except for the turkey - and the turkey isn’t a problem for my diet.

    So that leaves Christmas and the rounds of parties, the cookies, the travelling, the parents’ home. I’ve done well in the past - but it always involves thinking ahead.

    And I will have a piece of pumpkin pie every day that it exists. Thankfully there will only be one pie, and it will be at my mom’s, where there are three other avid pumpkin pie lovers. If I hold it to a piece a day, I will probably only get two pieces before it runs out.

    I love pumpkin pie.

    Comment by Tracy — October 25, 2006 @ 7:27 am

  9. Tracy, if you don’t mind using splenda, I made a pumpkin cheesecake a couple of years ago that was real pasable. Nothing beats the real thing, but some days, it’s “any old port in the storm”

    Comment by Ellen — October 25, 2006 @ 6:33 pm

  10. I don’t mind splenda - but I only have pumpkin pie on the holiday that I spend with my parents (either Thanksgiving or Christmas, depends on whether it’s an odd or even year - even years get Christmas). I’ve already decided to have the pie, and enjoy every bite. I’ve done this before and it actually helped a lot to be able to say NO to the other pitfalls, as I looked forward to my pie :-) .

    I would like that recipe anyway! Thank you!

    Comment by Tracy — October 25, 2006 @ 8:49 pm

  11. And blest - is it Princess Bride? one of the rhyming lines?

    Comment by Tracy — October 25, 2006 @ 8:52 pm

  12. “If there are, we’ll all be dead.”
    In our house they are know as “pitholes”. Not to be confused with “pitfalls” or “potholes”. This came about when Hubby was translating from German to English at a Russian wedding so the Russian could translate it from English to Russian. He said that marriage was filled with many pitholes. I love that guy.
    Thanksgiving and Christmas is bad because my in-laws like to lavish chocolate and homemade German cakes and cookies upon us. Of course, we have to have coffee hour every day with whipped cream in our coffee. I get fat just thinking about it.

    Comment by LeighAnn — October 26, 2006 @ 5:24 pm

Monday 23 October 2006

Letting out a deep breath (Lorri)

Yes, we’re now in the 2nd trimester of pregnancy, which is very good news. A little over a week ago we had an ultrasound, which showed a tiny *baby* waving its arms and legs around, looking so much like a little person already! The baby was measuring right on track, and we got to hear the heartbeat, which was a big relief.

I’m still not sure that it has really sunk in yet. There have already been so many prayers for this little life, and so much trusting in God. But at the same time, I’ve had too many bouts of emotional eating as I struggle to believe in God’s goodness and His plan. As more signs of things going well accumulate, it becomes easier to believe that His plan includes another baby. But still, at the back of my mind, there’s that little “what-if”. Realistically, I know that there’s always a “what-if”…….even as (or especially as!) babies develop, are born, and grown into young men and women there are no guarantees.

That’s where the faith comes in. Faith that God will always be with us, even if life does send “what-ifs”. Faith that His strength can carry us when our own fails. Faith that He can turn all things for good, even if we in our limited understanding can’t see how that possibly could be.

So with that big reminder to myself, it’s off to bed. The nausea may be subsiding, but I’m still “pregnancy” tired! Tomorrow is another chance to make good choices with my eating, get out an move a little, and set a good example for my daughter.

4 Comments »

  1. Right there with you, Lorri. :) (We’re off to hear the heartbeat today, too!)

    Comment by stephanie — October 24, 2006 @ 6:02 am

  2. ((HUGS)) I pray that God brings you peace. I know what it’s like to be anxious over such things.

    Comment by Blair — October 24, 2006 @ 7:08 am

  3. Good news! Good news! Oh this is exciting! Hang in there Lorri!!

    Comment by blestwithsons — October 24, 2006 @ 10:42 am

  4. Praying for you today.

    Comment by Carrie — October 24, 2006 @ 11:30 am

Quote of the Day (blest)

We are indeed much more than we eat, but what we eat can nevertheless help us to be much more than what we are. - Adele Davis

Discuss…

4 Comments »

  1. Yes, I would like that. Not having really thought about what I ate growing up, it is definitely work to change my thinking now. But I want to change, so that’s the first step, as they say… I often wonder about what goes on inside an athlete’s head.

    Comment by Anita — October 23, 2006 @ 5:13 pm

  2. I have been looking for 2 recipes from Adele Davis which I made when I was pregnant in 1976. I got the recipes from her book “Let’s Have Healthy Children” which I ordered but it does not have the recipes in it that I made. One was a shake with brewers yeast in it and I think egg shells??? I thought it was called Pep up Drink or something like that. Do you know of it?

    Thanks Kathleen

    Comment by Kathleen — November 3, 2006 @ 9:58 am

  3. Unfortunately no. I found that quote in Women’s Quotes book. Other than that I’ve never heard of the lady.

    I’d say just keep googling til ya hit paydirt! :wink:

    Comment by blestwithsons — November 3, 2006 @ 10:06 am

  4. Kathleen, I used that Pep-Up recipe many years nursing my children and still use it when I feel my adrenals are becoming exhausted. If you like, email me and I will send you the entire recipe, and it’s not with egg shells it is eggshell calcium, which Adele differentiates between bone meal calcium and a couple of others. I bless that womans memory, her books have helped my family through-out the years! My email is shellierossignol@yahoo.com.

    Comment by shell — January 2, 2007 @ 12:41 pm

COMPANY REPORT!

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Fall in! Toes on the line! Eyes Front!

For-ahrd….!! MARCH! You in the back - stop that whining! Now step up and REE-PORT!!!

Sorry. My husband and I have been watching a WWII tv show every night for weeks. It’s going to my head. Great show, though!

Weigh in time, ladies! No prize this week - but I’ll finally announce last week’s winner. The Jeremy Camp CD goes to (drum roll) Carrie!!

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  1. Congratulations Carrie. And well done Blest for (finally) remembering to say who won last week.

    Well I’m down 2 this week. Taking me to 285.8
    Total weight loss 8.2 :-)

    Comment by Debs — October 23, 2006 @ 6:45 am

  2. Debs!!!! Weigh to go!! Isn’t it exciting!!?
    Ladies, I dreaded weighing in again this week. You know, a couple of weeks ago Jeff’s mom was here and has Monday I had gained. I still didn’t make the best decisions last week but better ones and exercised a little bit. I am also soooo PMSing but I did it any ways…I got on the scale. I even thought about skipping this week but nope, went ahead and weighed myself and I am down!!! This morning I weigh in at 209 which is down 2 pounds.
    My short term goal is to get to 193 by Christmas. Lots of work but totally doable!

    Comment by Tami — October 23, 2006 @ 6:54 am

  3. woohoo — I am down a total of 2 this week!

    Comment by Maria — October 23, 2006 @ 7:00 am

  4. opps make that only down only one this week — I am at 164 this morning — which is only one less than last weeks 165.

    Comment by Maria — October 23, 2006 @ 7:02 am

  5. Pregnancy is going ok so far ~ I’m now in the 2nd trimester! I’m up almost 2 pounds this week. Starting to feel less queasy, so hopefully I can get back to healthier eating. I was feeling sort of bad about the weight gain, but when I look back, I’m still a bit below where I was when had my last period. :-)

    Comment by Lorri — October 23, 2006 @ 7:14 am

  6. YAY Debs, Tami, and Maria!!! Woo hoo!!

    And Lorri, not only YAY, but does that mean you are past your danger point??

    Comment by blestwithsons — October 23, 2006 @ 7:18 am

  7. I am down to 146.5 this week, which is a 2 pound loss. I am a wee bit excited about that.

    And interestingly enough… after my French post, I have had small square (1/3 serving size) of 75% cacao dark chocolate every day since Wednesday. Color me happy girls.

    Congrats to everyone above, too. :)

    Comment by lady laura — October 23, 2006 @ 7:19 am

  8. Alrighty, here are my numbers from Friday:

    256.6 / 206.2 / 135 ~ down 2.6 from last Monday. (down 3.4 from last Friday) Worked out really hard for 4 days last week. AF showed this morning so I’m taking Friday’s weight.

    As you can see, I past the 50 down mark - woohoo!! I did really good over the weekend with my eating, kept a journal while at the in-laws. The visit went well and I’m so glad.

    Carrie - congrats on the drawing!

    DEBS - WAY TO GO GIRL!!!!

    Tami - WOOHOOO!!!! Don’t you love surprises like that!

    Maria - Good Job! Down is DOWN right!

    Lorri - Congratulations on hitting the second tri-mester Lorri! I know that helps you breathe a sigh of relief…at least a little bit anyway. Glad you’re feeling better.

    Comment by Blair — October 23, 2006 @ 7:24 am

  9. Laura!! Super work girl!

    Comment by Blair — October 23, 2006 @ 7:26 am

  10. No change this week. Not a lot of time to exercise. And we are heading out for a quick trip to the beach in a couple of days. See you all next week.

    Comment by Anita — October 23, 2006 @ 7:30 am

  11. Last week was 212.7, and this week is 210! I’m down 2.7 lbs, meeting my goal of 2 pounds a week!

    More exciting, I’ve managed to NOT cheat on my diet for 1 week and 4 days!

    And now I have even more incentive to lose…when I hit my goal of 160 pounds my mom has agreed to buy me a wheat grinder!

    Comment by Kimberly — October 23, 2006 @ 8:00 am

  12. Yay Blair!! Weigh to power on through, girl!!

    And Kimberly!! Great going - and great goal!!

    Here’s my stats for this week:

    212.8/185.8/135

    that’s down 1.2 for the week.

    Fifty to go…wow. Ten more gone and I’ll finally be back at my pre-pregnancy weight - and I mean my FIRST pregnancy! :razz: Oh — and I’ll weigh the same as my husband.

    Comment by blestwithsons — October 23, 2006 @ 8:40 am

  13. Down .8 this week. Still ploughing along.

    Thank you so much for the CD! What a great way to start Monday!

    Comment by Carrie — October 23, 2006 @ 8:52 am

  14. Down one more pound today!

    163/155.2/135

    Down a few inches, too!!! Oh, and AF is here…. ;)

    Comment by Leann — October 23, 2006 @ 9:36 am

  15. up 1 today, but down a full 1% of body fat in the last three weeks, so i’ll take that! :)

    Comment by anne — October 23, 2006 @ 10:09 am

  16. Down another pound this week!

    210/193.6/160

    Comment by Jana — October 23, 2006 @ 11:13 am

  17. down another pound. I like this trend. Working more at it too so that helps ;-)

    Comment by Tracy — October 23, 2006 @ 11:38 am

  18. No whining.. promise… ;)

    Down .7

    Comment by Kat — October 23, 2006 @ 7:55 pm