Saturday 30 September 2006

Watered down

Confession time. I REALLY struggle with getting my daily water intake. I either can’t remember what water I have drank or I just forget to drink water and don’t remember until I am nestled into bed. Does this sound like you??

— Hi. My name is ____________ and I have a drinking problem.

There…..doesn’t that feel better? Just say it out loud. Each day I keep posting my pitiful water intake and think “I’ll do better tomorrow.” We all know how important water is.

THE FACTS:

The process of burning calories requires an adequate supply of water in order to function efficiently; dehydration slows down the fat-burning process.

Burning calories creates toxins (think of the exhaust coming out of your car), and water plays a vital role in flushing them out of your body.

Dehydration causes a reduction in blood volume; a reduction in blood volume causes a reduction in the supply of oxygen to your muscles; and a reduction in the supply of oxygen to your muscles can make you feel tired.

Water helps maintain muscle tone by assisting muscles in their ability to contract, and it lubricates your joints. Proper hydration can help reduce muscle and joint soreness when exercising.

A healthy (weight loss) diet includes a good amount of fiber. But while fiber is normally helpful to your digestive system, without adequate fluids it can cause constipation instead of helping to eliminate it.

Drinking water with a meal may make you feel full sooner and therefore satisfied eating less. Note, however, that drinking water alone may not have this effect. In order to feel satiated (not hungry), our bodies need bulk, calories and nutrients.

I have an idea for helping us all to get our needed water. First thing in the morning take a pitcher and measure out (in ounces) your daily requirement of water. If you weigh 190 you would need 95 ozs (or about 12 cups) of water. To make it easier, once you have filled up your pitcher take a Sharpie and mark the water level as a guide for the next day. Then, for the day, only drink your water from this source. At the end of the day you will be able to see/measure how much water you did or did not drink. Decorate your pitcher with motivational phrases or some of the facts above as a visual reminder. Tell other family members this container is “off limits” so your measurements will be accurate. There are a few reasons I think this idea can be effective.

1. We will be able to see how much water we need.

2. We will be able to keep track of what we are drinking.

3. If we put the pitcher in the refrigerator our water will always be cold and refreshing to drink.

4. It may prevent us from drinking other things (like juice, soda, tea, milk, etc.) when we see our almost full pitcher staring us down.

If you are going to participate and decorate a pitcher tell me your ideas. What motivational phrases, facts, or scripture are you going to incorporate?? Leave your thoughts in the comments.

2 Comments »

  1. I don’t really have a problem with drinking water, probably because I never have liked things like tea or coffee. However one thing I do do is as soon as I empty a cup I refill it. And I take it with me where-ever I am in the house. Even if that means you end up with a cup in every room I suppose you are more likely to drink some if it’s where you are. All the best with this Mandi. Please let us know if there’s other any ways we can encourage you. :-)

    Comment by Debs — September 30, 2006 @ 11:22 am

  2. I use pre-measured water bottles (I have 4 - 32 oz ones). They are “off limits” to the family and they know it lol. It’s how I am able to track what I drink each day.

    I’m working on my second one right now….;)

    Comment by Blair — September 30, 2006 @ 12:37 pm

Friday 29 September 2006

Freezer cooking

From the Woman’s Health Magazine website, in an article about dieting side effects:

Side Effect No. 1 You Can Give Oscar The Grouch A Run For His Money
Why it happens: You’re not eating enough carbs, or you’re not eating them often enough. Carbohydrates supply energy to the entire body, but the brain is the only organ that is solely carb-dependent, says Felicia D. Stoler, R.D., an exercise physiologist in New York City. Carb consumption stimulates production of serotonin, the brain chemical that lifts your mood. So too few carbs can make you feel — and act — like Paris Hilton on a bad bikini day.

Slim solution: Keep blood sugar levels (and your emotions) on an even keel by eating about every 3 hours. Scatter your carbs throughout the day rather than devouring them all in one shot. And choose ones that are high in fiber, like whole grains, fruits, and vegetables: They’re released into the bloodstream more slowly than their refined cousins (white flour, sugar) and cause fewer peaks and valleys in blood sugar levels, says New Yorkbased dietitian Marissa Lippert, R.D. See ya, Mallomar; hello, mango.

Side Effect No. 2 Your Period Is All Screwy
Why it happens: Dietary fat is one of the building blocks of estrogen production. So if you eat too little of it, your estrogen levels may drop — and your period may get delayed, or you may skip it altogether. Simply put: “Fat is necessary for menstruation to happen,” says Faye Berger Mitchell, R.D., a dietitian in Bethesda, Maryland. Not only are wacky periods bad for your bod, they’re clearly a problem if you want to get pregnant.

Slim solution: Chew some fat, for heaven’s sake! “The specific amount of fat needed differs from woman to woman,” Berger Mitchell says. But if your cycle is out of whack, you should get 30 percent of your calories from fat, according to Suzanne Phelan, Ph.D., assistant professor at Brown Medical School, the Miriam Hospital. That’s 480 fat calories in a 1,600-calorie-a-day diet. And remember: Fat can actually help you lose weight because it keeps you full and makes your dinner taste better. Just make sure most of those fat calories come from poly- and monounsaturated fats (the “good” ones, found in foods like olive oil, walnuts, fish, and avocados).

I know for me, I think I’m getting enough carbs. South Beach allots three servings a day of healthy carbs - not counting the carbs that come from fruits and vegetables. I’m not eating a lot of fat…but given that I have a daily serving of mixed nuts (and no I’m not talking about my kids) and usually some olive oil in there somewhere, I think I’m okay. But then why am I so grouchy? I don’t know, but I’m going to put my b-complex and fish oil supplements back in my diet. Both are supposed to help with mood.

2 Comments »

  1. Thanks, Blest!!

    Ya know what I keep thinking about? That USDA food pyramid, with 6-8 (or is it 12) grains a day, and 3-4 veggies. It is so backwards from what “they” tell us now. (I have a nutritionist friend who says we need more like 7-10 veggie servings a day.) When is the USDA gonna re-vamp the program?!

    Oh, never mind. I just looked it up and they have redone it, I guess. To even see it is too complicated for me at the moment..

    Comment by lady laura — September 28, 2006 @ 8:03 pm

  2. These are some great points - I KNOW I’ve not been eating enough during the week and I’m pretty sure that has a lot to do with my mood, period whackiness…etc.

    Yesterday I ate more and tracked my food and I was a MUCH happier gal by the end of the day. Of course, having that meeting with God yesterday was a huge contributor as well.

    What about water Blest? Are you getting enough of that?

    Laura, they’ve changed the pyramid? I didn’t know that. It’s about time! Didn’t I read somewhere that that pyramid is the equivalent of “pig fattening feed” - yikes!

    Comment by Blair — September 29, 2006 @ 8:54 am

Thursday 28 September 2006

Thnigs that make you go hmmm (blest)

From the Woman’s Health Magazine website, in an article about dieting side effects:

Side Effect No. 1 You Can Give Oscar The Grouch A Run For His Money
Why it happens: You’re not eating enough carbs, or you’re not eating them often enough. Carbohydrates supply energy to the entire body, but the brain is the only organ that is solely carb-dependent, says Felicia D. Stoler, R.D., an exercise physiologist in New York City. Carb consumption stimulates production of serotonin, the brain chemical that lifts your mood. So too few carbs can make you feel — and act — like Paris Hilton on a bad bikini day.

Slim solution: Keep blood sugar levels (and your emotions) on an even keel by eating about every 3 hours. Scatter your carbs throughout the day rather than devouring them all in one shot. And choose ones that are high in fiber, like whole grains, fruits, and vegetables: They’re released into the bloodstream more slowly than their refined cousins (white flour, sugar) and cause fewer peaks and valleys in blood sugar levels, says New Yorkbased dietitian Marissa Lippert, R.D. See ya, Mallomar; hello, mango.

Side Effect No. 2 Your Period Is All Screwy
Why it happens: Dietary fat is one of the building blocks of estrogen production. So if you eat too little of it, your estrogen levels may drop — and your period may get delayed, or you may skip it altogether. Simply put: “Fat is necessary for menstruation to happen,” says Faye Berger Mitchell, R.D., a dietitian in Bethesda, Maryland. Not only are wacky periods bad for your bod, they’re clearly a problem if you want to get pregnant.

Slim solution: Chew some fat, for heaven’s sake! “The specific amount of fat needed differs from woman to woman,” Berger Mitchell says. But if your cycle is out of whack, you should get 30 percent of your calories from fat, according to Suzanne Phelan, Ph.D., assistant professor at Brown Medical School, the Miriam Hospital. That’s 480 fat calories in a 1,600-calorie-a-day diet. And remember: Fat can actually help you lose weight because it keeps you full and makes your dinner taste better. Just make sure most of those fat calories come from poly- and monounsaturated fats (the “good” ones, found in foods like olive oil, walnuts, fish, and avocados).

I know for me, I think I’m getting enough carbs. South Beach allots three servings a day of healthy carbs - not counting the carbs that come from fruits and vegetables. I’m not eating a lot of fat…but given that I have a daily serving of mixed nuts (and no I’m not talking about my kids) and usually some olive oil in there somewhere, I think I’m okay. But then why am I so grouchy? I don’t know, but I’m going to put my b-complex and fish oil supplements back in my diet. Both are supposed to help with mood.

2 Comments »

  1. Thanks, Blest!!

    Ya know what I keep thinking about? That USDA food pyramid, with 6-8 (or is it 12) grains a day, and 3-4 veggies. It is so backwards from what “they” tell us now. (I have a nutritionist friend who says we need more like 7-10 veggie servings a day.) When is the USDA gonna re-vamp the program?!

    Oh, never mind. I just looked it up and they have redone it, I guess. To even see it is too complicated for me at the moment..

    Comment by lady laura — September 28, 2006 @ 8:03 pm

  2. These are some great points - I KNOW I’ve not been eating enough during the week and I’m pretty sure that has a lot to do with my mood, period whackiness…etc.

    Yesterday I ate more and tracked my food and I was a MUCH happier gal by the end of the day. Of course, having that meeting with God yesterday was a huge contributor as well.

    What about water Blest? Are you getting enough of that?

    Laura, they’ve changed the pyramid? I didn’t know that. It’s about time! Didn’t I read somewhere that that pyramid is the equivalent of “pig fattening feed” - yikes!

    Comment by Blair — September 29, 2006 @ 8:54 am

Wednesday 27 September 2006

Prayer rom (blest)

Let’s lift one another up today, Ladies. General prayers for the group would include praying against depression - I would say at least half of the team is struggling with that - and of course for strength and motivation in making healthy choices.

Leave your requests and words of prayer and encouragement for the other requests in the comment thread.

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  1. Please pray for my neighbors - Manny and Josie - who are grieving the sudden loss of Manny’s sister. This situation is complicated by some ugly family issues too long to detail here. Please pray for their comfort, that they would come to know the Lord, and that I would be sensitive in my ministering to them.

    Also, please pray that my left hand will stop hurting. I’m going to need my hands for all the cooking I’ll be doing today.

    Comment by blestwithsons — September 28, 2006 @ 7:02 am

  2. Blest, I will definitely pray for your neighbors and for your hand ((HUGS)).

    Prayer Requests:
    I’m having some mood swings that I wish would just stop already.

    We still don’t know if my husband’s contract is being extended past October.

    A distant cousin of mine was killed in a motorcycle accident a couple of weeks ago. She had just accepted Christ and was turning her life around (history with drugs). She left behind two small children. Her mother and sister (who are still into drugs) are not doing well.

    There’s plenty more but I don’t want to hog everyone’s time lol.

    Praise:
    The lovely monthly is definitely here - glad it’s essentially ontime for a change (a week or so early each month is NOT cool)

    Comment by Blair — September 28, 2006 @ 1:05 pm

  3. Prayed for your moods - I’m right there with ya girl - and for your relatives… Thanks for joining me in here - I was getting lonely!! :wink:

    Comment by blestwithsons — September 28, 2006 @ 1:09 pm

  4. Blair and Blest, praying for you right now.

    I’d love prayer for depression. I think you hit the nail right on the head, Blest. I keep asking myself why I’m having such a hard time staying disciplined. Last year, when I was on WW, I actually had a fairly easy time. But ever since the health issues, including the allergic reaction that started me with anxiety, I’m having an extremely hard time. I want to eat all the time, and I think it’s because I’m depressed or anxious all the time. I’ve been trying to deal with it with prayer and the Word, but I’m wondering if I need to talk to my doctor about some other way of treating this. Pray for wisdom and that God would just lift this depression.

    Comment by Carrie — September 28, 2006 @ 1:14 pm

  5. Lifting you up, Carrie!

    Comment by blestwithsons — September 28, 2006 @ 1:17 pm

  6. Praying for you guys… Isn’t it fantastic that we have a God who is personally interested in each of us. May he pour his love and peace into each of these situations right now.

    Comment by Debs — September 28, 2006 @ 1:40 pm

  7. Praying for all… :) (((((HUGS)))))

    Comment by Leann — September 28, 2006 @ 2:03 pm

  8. I’ll be praying for you all. :) I could just use prayer for extra rest right now. My almost-8 month old is still not sleeping through the night, and with first trimester exhaustion, it’s making my days drag and I’m not getting much of anything done. Everything seems blah since I can’t get up the energy to tackle anything. :) (((Hugs)))

    Comment by stephanie — September 28, 2006 @ 2:28 pm

  9. Oh how I wish I’d logged on earlier today ~ Praying for you all.

    Comment by aj — September 28, 2006 @ 4:52 pm

  10. Definitely praying!

    It does seem that depression is going ’round. Even the craft blogs I read are talking about feeling the duldrums, and crafters are usually happy people =) I wonder how much the seasonal change has to do with it.

    Comment by lady laura — September 28, 2006 @ 8:07 pm

  11. I will certainly be praying for all of your moods to brighten!! I grew up with a bi-polar, manic depressive, borderline schizophrenic (boy that is a mouthful) mother. We are actually not speaking right now. So I would appreciate prayers for that. It is hard because I feel like I am always justifying her behavior because of her mental issues….but in the mean time she gets to say and do really hurtful things to my family (especially my husband) and then just pretends like nothing happened. Sorry for that sidetrack…you know the saying, “If it’s not one thing, it’s your mother.” ;O)

    To Blest: Thank you Lord for the heart You have given Blest for all of us women! She has been such an encouragement to all of us and I pray that you would be her comfort, her peace, her guidance, her strength, her joy, and her delight today. Bless her as she raises up her 4 little men. Lord help her to achieve her weight loss goals. We do it all for Your glory Lord but it would certainly be nice for her husband to proclaim she is “one hot mama”!

    To Blair: Thank you Lord for the sweet sweet spirit of Blair. Her tenderness and compassion just ooze through her words to us and I thank You today for her! I pray that Blair would delight in You and that she would see herself as You see her Father. She is such a beautiful woman and I pray this would be evident to her today. Lord bless her efforts to be healthy and surround her with people who will encourage her, lift her up, and support her. I pray that her husband would be her #1 encourager and that she would be filled with the love of Christ.

    To Carrie: Lord I lift Carrie up before you today. Father please ease her anxiety. If there is anything she can do to ease the anxiousness and depression please show her. Give her clarification for what her next step should be. Lord bless Carrie for drawing close to You during her time of need. I thank you for this Father and praise You for always being there for us in our trials. During this trial I pray that Carrie would be made stronger (spiritually, physically, and mentally) than she was before it started. I also thank you for her transparency which allows us to pray for her.

    To Stephanie: Lord I pray for rest, and sleep, and quiet for Stephanie. Father please help her with getting her 8 month old to sleep through the night. I thank you for the life growing inside of her and ask a special blessing on her body. It is so hard to take care of little ones and be pregnant, but there is nothing on this earth that can happen to us that You can’t help us through. Give her the energy Lord that she needs. I pray that her husband would support her and help when he can. Help her to make good food choices Lord. I pray that she would crave the things that will energize her and nourish her own body and the body of her child. Give her a desire for healthy, wholesome foods Lord.

    Comment by Mandi — September 29, 2006 @ 7:00 am

  12. Blest - thank you for the prayers hon ((love ya))

    ((Carrie)) I have sooooo been there girl. I will pray for you in this. I was “on something” for a bit after my third living child arrived - email me if you want to talk about it :o )

    Debs, Leann, Steph, AJ, Laura - thank you for praying ((HUGS))

    ((Steph)) I will pray for you to get some rest - I know what that’s like big time.

    ((Mandi)) I’m going to lift up you and your mom - I know how hard it can be to have a strained relationship with a parent. I am praying for restoration. Also, while I was reading your prayer, I got goosebumps. If you only knew what God has been saying to me lately - wow! Thank you so much.

    Comment by Blair — September 29, 2006 @ 9:09 am

  13. Thank you, ladies, for the hugs and prayers.

    Comment by Carrie — September 29, 2006 @ 10:05 am

  14. Depression is quite enthrenched in me at this point, and I certainly appreciate prayers. But I’m also praying for a precious little boy, Jake, who has run out of options at St. Jude. I first heard about Jake when my youngest used to go to speech therapy at his aunt’s speech therapy business. Anyway, the only treatment left is a miracle. They’ve contacted hospice and they’re home in Louisiana. Here’s his site

    Comment by Tracy — September 30, 2006 @ 7:35 am

  15. well, I didn’t get the code right for a link - so here it is in plain English. http://www.caringbridge.org/la/jakeowen/

    Comment by Tracy — September 30, 2006 @ 7:36 am

Losing and Giving (blest)

Tami’s post about a backpack full of the lost weight gave me an idea! You see, after she posted that (scroll down if you missed it) I went to the pantry with my scale and loaded a sack full of twenty pounds of canned goods. Man! That’s heavy!! And it was motivating to know that I have gotten that much weight of my frame. (plus I can’t help but daydream about how light I’ll feel when I’ve ditched three more bags full!)

Then I thought… Hmmm. That bag of cans looks like it’s going to a food bank… And why not??

So here’s my idea! Thanksgiving is two months away. Come November, I am going to donate the weight I have lost in canned goods to a food bank or food basket program. Wanna join me? You can either do total weight lost since the beginning, or weight from now til the Donate Day. I’m not sure what the deadline will be since it will have to be a little before Thanksgiving. Maybe the Weigh-In Monday before? What do you think?

4 Comments »

  1. I think that is a heavy idea, man. Totally.

    Count me in, daddy-o.

    Comment by lady laura — September 27, 2006 @ 8:54 am

  2. Cool… I’m in!

    Comment by Leann — September 27, 2006 @ 8:58 am

  3. I think this is a great idea. Do you mean the Monday before the week of Thanksgiving? I think that would be best that way a person had time to run to the store and get canned goods and take them wherever they decide. I am in…provided we are not in the middle of a move. We are trying to purchase a house (kind of unexpectedly) and may be a little strapped for finances at that time…until we get this house rented at least.

    Comment by Tami — September 27, 2006 @ 1:28 pm

  4. Oh I like this. And you know what - my math skills are a little whack - I was looking at how much I’m down from my high and it’s almost 60 not 50…blech! Wonder how many cans that is? I better start buying them now and space it out lol.

    Fun stuff!

    Comment by Blair — September 28, 2006 @ 6:18 am

Tuesday 26 September 2006

Turning up the fat-burning machine (blest)

Okay…so we had our weigh-in yesterday. And I noticed a theme. Ladies, as a group, we are stuck. So let’s take a quick inventory.

Do you have a plan? If so, are you sticking to it?

Are you exercising regularly? The bare minimum is three times a week. To really make progress you need more like 5-7. And if you’re not sweating, you’re not doing it right. So what are you doing? Are you bored? Is it time for something new? Do you have weight training in addition to your cardio? Or do you need to add cardio to your weight training?

What kind of carbs are you eating? I know we’re not all on the same plan, but good carbs are good carbs no matter what plan you’re on. Repeat after me: White flour is baaad. Wheat flour is gooood. White sugar is EEvil. Is there room for improvement there?

How about total calorie intake? I’m not big on counting them myself, but I think if you’re stalled it may be a good idea. I saw an article this weekend that showed how women continually underestimate their calories. An extra slice of turkey here, a dollop more salad dressing there… it adds up! Are you measuring certain “high-risk” foods? Personally, I measure salad dressing and whole wheat pasta. It’s just too easy to go overboard with stuff like that. If I ever have brown rice again, I’ll measure that too.

Are you eating before bed? If you are - Cut It Out!! I know it’s hard to go to bed hungry, but do it!

Are you eating breakfast? Ideally, breakfast should be within an hour of getting up. It gets that metabolism humming! And make sure there’s some protein in there somewhere!

Do you have a drinking problem? I mean water, of course.

How are you sleeping? Remember that not enough sleep can affect your body’s ability to lose weight.
And finally, how is this site working for you? Is there anything we can do better? Got any great ideas for new themes, new posts, anything? And did I miss anything? Share your wisdom!!

5 Comments »

  1. Wow, blest. Good stuff to be thinking about and evaluating.
    In the beginning I was keeping a daily food diary. Everything I ate and drank, when I exercise, how long, intensity, etc. I haven’t touched that diary in almost 2 weeks. Certain things got to be habits, and I left the diary behind.

    I do know that one of the things that is the hardest for me at this stage is the veggies. I am BORED of them. I need to work past it, yes I do. And get the diary back into my routine.

    Off to think more about the questions you asked…….

    Comment by lady laura — September 26, 2006 @ 7:40 pm

  2. I have let circumstances get me down, but I’m bouncing back with the help of Hubby. I need to post this where I will see it every morning.

    Comment by Leigh Ann — September 26, 2006 @ 8:09 pm

  3. I don’t know about in the US, but here in the UK one of the things they’re always going on about is how you should walk 1000 steps a day. I think I’m going to dig out my pedometer and start seeing how many steps I do actually take each day and see if I can up that, as well as going swimming as my exercise as choice. Oh, and if you don’t have a pedometer try using your kids - I remember one holiday when I was younger my two sisters and I became a human pedometer, one person counted 1-20, the next counted 20s and the third counted 100s. I think mum did the thousands!

    Comment by Debs — September 27, 2006 @ 3:50 am

  4. I need to go back to protien breakfasts ( ie omlets ) instead of the easy way out — cereal, it is Cheerios but still…….

    Water, water, water a must I have SOOOOO slacked off on my water.

    Comment by Maria — September 27, 2006 @ 6:22 pm

  5. I decided to do some evaluating and yesterday I sat down to write down everything I’d eaten since Monday. I was shocked at how little I’m eating - this is a problem for sure, add to that not enough sleep and exercise (probably because I lack the energy due to not eating enough)…..and well, I need to change some things.

    So, I plan to keep a food diary as has already been mentioned to make sure I eat enough.

    Comment by Blair — September 28, 2006 @ 6:22 am

Feast at the Lord's Table (Mandi)

The following is a quotation from the book “Desiring God” by John Piper. The quote is from George Mueller.

While I was staying at Nailsworth, it pleased the Lord to teach me a truth, irrespective of human instrumentality, as far as I know, the benefit of which I have not lost though now. . .more than forty years have since passed away.

The point is this: I saw more clearly than ever, that the first great and primary business to which I ought to attend every day was, to have my soul happy in the Lord. The first thing to be concerned about was not, how much I might serve the Lord, how I might glorify the Lord; but how I might get my soul into a happy state, and how my inner man might be nourished. For I might seek to set the truth before the unconverted, I might seek to benefit believers, I might seek to relieve the distressed, I might in other ways seek to behave myself as it becomes a child of God in this world; and yet, not being happy in the Lord, and not being nourished and strengthened in my inner man day by day, all this might not be attended to in a right spirit.

Before this time my practice had been, at least ten years previously, as an habitual thing, to give myself to prayer, after having dressed in the morning. Now I saw that the most important thing I had to do was to give myself to the reading of the Word of God and to meditation on it, that thus my heart might be comforted, encouraged, warned, reproved, instructed; and that thus, whilst meditating, my heart might be brought into experimental, communion with the Lord. I began therefore, to meditate on the New Testament, from the beginning, early in the morning.

The first thing I did, after having asked in a few words the Lord’s blessing upon His precious Word, was to begin to meditate on the Word of God; searching, as it were, into every verse, to get blessing out of it; not for the sake of the public ministry of the Word; not for the sake of preaching on what I had meditated upon; but for the sake of obtaining food for my own soul. The result I have found to be almost invariably this, that after a very few minutes my soul has been led to confession, or to thanksgiving, or to intercession, or to supplication; so that though I did not, as it were, give myself to prayer, but to meditation, yet it turned almost immediately more or less into prayer. When thus I have been for awhile making confession, or intercession, or supplication, or have given thanks, I go on to the next words or verse, turning all, as I go on, into prayer for myself or others, as the Word may lead to it; but still continually keeping before me, that food for my own soul is the object of my meditation. The result of this is, that there is always a good deal of confession, thanksgiving, supplication, or intercession mingled with my meditation, and that my inner man almost invariably is even sensibly nourished and strengthened and that by breakfast time, with rare exceptions, I am in a peaceful if not happy state of heart. Thus also the Lord is pleased to communicate unto me that which, very soon after, I have found to become food for other believers, though it was not for the sake of the public ministry of the Word that I gave myself to meditation, but for the profit of my own inner man.

The difference between my former practice and my present one is this. Formerly, when I rose, I began to pray as soon as possible, and generally spent all my time till breakfast in prayer, or almost all the time. At all events I almost invariably began with prayer. . .But what was the result? I often spent a quarter of an hour, or half an hour, or even an hour on my knees, before being conscious to myself of having derived comfort, encouragement, humbling of soul, etc.; and often after having suffered much from wandering of mind for the first ten minutes, or a quarter of an hour, or even half an hour, I only then began really to pray.

I scarcely ever suffer now in this way. For my heart being nourished by the truth, being brought into experimental fellowship with God, I speak to my Father, and to my Friend (vile though I am, and unworthy of it) about the things that He has brought before me in His precious Word.

It often now astonishes me that I did not sooner see this. In no book did I ever read about it. No public ministry ever brought the matter before me. No private intercourse with a brother stirred me up to this matter. And yet now, since God has taught me this point, it is as plain to me as anything, that the first thing the child of God has to do morning by morning is to obtain food for his inner man.

As the outward man is not fit for work for any length of time, except we take food, and as this is one of the first things we do in the morning, so it should be with the inner man. We should take food for that, as every one must allow. What is the food for the inner man: not prayer, but the Word of God, so that it not only passes through our minds, just as water runs through a pipe, but considering what we read, pondering over it, and applying it to our hearts. . .

I dwell so particularly on this point because of the immense spiritual profit and refreshment I am conscious of having derived from it myself, and I affectionately and solemnly beseech all my fellow-believers to ponder this matter. By the blessing of God I ascribe to this mode the help and strength I have had from God to pass in peace through deeper trials in various ways than I had ever had before; and after having now above forty years tried this way, I can most fully, in the fear of God, commend it. How different when the soul is refreshed and made happy early in the morning, from what it is when, without spiritual preparation, the service, the trials and the temptations of the day come upon one!

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  1. Thank you for this Mandi. It was exactly what I needed to read - not for my diet efforts so much -but for my life. Thank you for taking the time to type this all in.

    Comment by blestwithsons — September 26, 2006 @ 1:05 pm

Question of the Day

What is the difference between cheat and treat?

Discuss.

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  1. I think cheat is when you make little allowances on a rather regular basis. When you “cheat” it’s easier to continue to make wrong choices. The word just sounds like something you are not supposed to do. I think treat is when you are rewarded for all of the positive that you have done. ex. after 5 weeks of making very smart decisions in reguards to food and exercise, my husband and I treated ourselves to a burger with the bun (was not supposed to have the buns) and we split an order of onion rings. That was it. No more “treating” ourselves. We went knowing that this was a treat and that we could not let it bring us back to where we had been. It tasted sooo good and yet, it didn’t leave me feeling guilty (cheating does).
    Well, that’s my 2 cents worth.

    Comment by Tami — September 26, 2006 @ 5:36 am

  2. I think Tami is onto something - a treat is planned….cheating is typically spurred by emotions or some other fickle factor.

    Comment by Blair — September 26, 2006 @ 6:08 am

  3. I see it much the same way as Mandi and Blair. A treat is rare and planned for, with allowances being made prior to lessen its effect. Like being very careful and disciplined for the week, knowing you will have a piece of pie at a family dinner.
    A cheat is spontaneous and is thereby not thought through. It does not involve a view of the bigger picture but focuses on the moment of desire in isolation from goals. It is also usually surrounded by lies (to ourselves).
    One cheat often leads to another: I have a cake when I shouldn’t, might as well have another since I blew it anyway.

    Comment by lady laura — September 26, 2006 @ 8:51 am

  4. I think cheating is also denying what the root of wanting that food is. Denying the effect having that food might have to your body and success. When I have cheated - it was convincing myself that it wasn’t “that” bad or I “deserved” something.

    Treating to me is EARNING the food that is not the norm.

    So to me-

    Cheat: false deserving
    Treat: Earning

    Comment by Kat — September 26, 2006 @ 12:09 pm

  5. Good answers everybody!! That’s pretty much what I was thinking too. I think that when you plan for a food exception - it’s a treat. I think when you go off plan compulsively, it’s cheating. I also think that frequency has something to do with it. If you’re “treating” multiple times a day, for example, it’s more like cheating. :razz:

    I also think that how you feel about the treat/cheat should be taken into account. I think of it the way I used to think about alcohol. (I don’t drink anymore) My rule was - if you need a drink, you better not have it. But if you would just enjoy one then it’s ok. If you NEED/crave/gotta have that forbidden food, it might be better to resist it. But if you’re planning a treat in perfect control, just knowing you will enjoy a small amount, that’s fine.

    For me, I can have two small squares of a chocolate bar as a treat. I enjoy it and I don’t have cravings. But I wouldn’t treat with something like tortilla chips. I can’t be trusted with them.

    Comment by blestwithsons — September 26, 2006 @ 1:02 pm

  6. I’m with you Blest! No Mexican restaurants for me…the chips and salsa just call my name over and over…Tami…Tami…just one…just one more…Tami…

    Comment by Tami — September 26, 2006 @ 1:49 pm

Monday 25 September 2006

Little pick my up (Tami)

Ladies,

I told my husband that on the days I am feeling down about my weight, I will carry a backpack around that weighs exactly what I have lost to that point. It’s so easy to get down about our weight. We want immediate gratification. We don’t see the loss so much because we look at ourselves daily. Next time your feeling down, try it out. It may just amaze you at how much you were carring around not that long ago.free lg verizon 20 vx6000 ringtoneringtone ployphonic days later 28for song alabama fight nextel ringtoneverizon phone lg 6000 ringtonenokia free ringtone 8620a650 ringtone free samsungstanley fc accringtonalltel site web ringtone Map

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  1. That is an interesting idea! Hmmmm…

    Comment by blestwithsons — September 25, 2006 @ 1:39 pm

  2. Ha!! I should have done that on Friday. I’ve lost almost 50 lbs since my daughter was born (granted now over 2 years ago but still lol). I’m not sure I have 50 lbs worth of stuff that would fit in a back pack and I doubt one of my kids would let me cart them around all day. I’ll have to think about this though….I like the idea!

    Comment by Blair — September 25, 2006 @ 1:43 pm

  3. Okay. I just put 20 pounds of canned goods in a wal-mart bag. I can’t believe that I had THAT on my body just two months ago. No wonder I feel so springy!! And I have three more bags to go!

    Comment by blestwithsons — September 25, 2006 @ 1:49 pm

  4. ha ha!! what a fun idea to remind us of where we are and where we have come from rather than focusing on where we yet to go.

    love it!!

    Comment by amanda — September 26, 2006 @ 12:56 am

In which we get serious (blest)

As Blair pointed out, it is a scant three months til Christmas. October is fast approaching, and with it comes the Bermuda Triangle of weight loss efforts. Halloween (whether you celebrate it or not - the candy is omnipresent), Thanksgiving, and CHRISTMAS.

I’m going to really step out and make a rather bleak and harsh prediction. If you aren’t seriously committed now to your lifestyle changes (I’m desperately trying to avoid the d-word, can you tell)… I say again, if you aren’t truly-uly mule-headedly committed to making good choices and taking care of your body and losing weight, you might as well give up until January.

I’m not trying to be mean. It’s just that we all know what’s coming. Parties and dinners and traditions, OH MY! If we don’t make up our minds right now that NOTHING is going to derail us, we will be off the track faster than you can say pumpkin pie.

For the last month I have been brainstorming about strategies and posts and other bloggity things to help us through the holidays. But none of them are worth much without individual commitment.

What am I talking about? Well, I’m really not talking about people’s posting habits. Post as little or as much as you want/can. There are no rules about that. Though I firmly believe that the more you participate in the site, the more you get out of it. I am getting tough about the weigh-ins. They are mandatory. They have been mandatory for a month now. If you’re not at least weighing-in, you are not part of the team. That’s just a fact.

Other than that, what do I want from you? I want you to COMMIT! No more excuses. No more outs. No more days off for holidays, birthdays, PMS, post-PMS, prePMS, or bad hair days!! There is NEVER a day when you shouldn’t make good choices in your eating. Am I saying you can’t ever have a treat? Not at all. But I think that until we realize that this is not a temporary measure but a true LIFESTYLE CHANGE, we’re spinning our wheels.

I remember reading Susan Powter’s book a long time ago. (loved that crazy no-hair lady) Maybe her story was true, maybe it wasn’t. I don’t care. But I remember a part where she fell and broke both ankles. She was wheelchair bound. But she was terrified she would gain her weight back so she worked out with her arms as much as she could. That is the kind of attitude we need to have. The attitude that says “I don’t care what my life says, I don’t care what the scale says, I don’t care what my kids just painted on the new couch…” I WILL NOT QUIT. I AM GOING TO GET THIS WEIGHT OFF! (PERIOD)

We’re going to talk a lot about how to enjoy the holidays without getting off track. We’re going to find new recipes, come up with new traditions, and have some fun! But first we have to get serious.

Will you get serious with me? Say so in the comments.

11 Comments »

  1. Are you saying that when I had some indian corn (”chocolate” candy corn) on Saturday I was not making a healthy lifestyle choice? Even if it was a bad hair day?! (joking!)

    I am sooo with you. If I was any more with you, I would BE you.

    Comment by lady laura — September 25, 2006 @ 12:07 pm

  2. YOU ARE SOOOOOOOOOO…. MEAN!!!!! *snickering* :P

    Comment by Leann — September 25, 2006 @ 12:25 pm

  3. Okay, okay…I hear you. I am buckling down right NOW! You’re right that the next three months will be the toughest but it’s all about attitude and commitment. I can say NO to that piece of pie or extra helping of food. Portions, portions, portions! I can DO this!!

    Comment by Andrea — September 25, 2006 @ 12:29 pm

  4. I’m gonna do it. For so long I’ve hated the way I am, but just not sustained doing anything about it. Having this group and the fantastic example you’ve all been setting is spurring me on to change me and my life. I’m fed up of what I am at the moment, so I’m determined to change :-)

    Comment by Debs — September 25, 2006 @ 12:51 pm

  5. I’m with you! I was tired of myself along time ago! I really believe though that this will be as hard as we want to make it. Remember “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me”

    Comment by Tami — September 25, 2006 @ 1:29 pm

  6. Aye, Aye Captain. (Is pregnancy a good enough excuse???) :) Seriously, I want to be GOOD this Christmas, pregnant and all.

    Comment by stephanie — September 25, 2006 @ 1:32 pm

  7. Pregnancy excuse is one of the reasons I have so much weight to lose!!! :razz: I kept losing weight - getting pregnant and giving myself a free pass - and then starting all over again!

    I think that you are gonna do great!

    Comment by blestwithsons — September 25, 2006 @ 1:36 pm

  8. As though I even have to respond lol - yes, I’m on board!

    And I can relate to the “pregnant pass” - I had mine laminated…ha ha! I’m sick of “starting over” personally - time to shred that bad boy….especially since I’m not preggers lol.

    Comment by Blair — September 25, 2006 @ 1:41 pm

  9. Okay, I’m going to knuckle down. I know it’s possible - last year when I started Weight Watchers, I lost weight continually through the holiday season. I did allow myself two days to not “count points” - Thanksgiving and Christmas. Just the days themselves - not the days (or weeks) surrounding them. And I did great. I’m having a hard time not being angry with myself for letting so much time go by without some serious losing. But I’ll channel that anger into perseverance.

    Comment by Carrie — September 25, 2006 @ 6:33 pm

  10. I’m committed….count me in!!

    Comment by Mandi — September 26, 2006 @ 7:58 am

  11. I’m still with you. Must commit.

    Comment by Leigh Ann — September 27, 2006 @ 3:37 pm

12 weeks to Christmas Challenge

In my own personal journey I’ve been trying to come up with some short term goals that I can strive for. While thinking about this, I thought I’d see if anyone here wants to join me :) Beginning next Monday we will have 12 weeks till Christmas day. What better time than now to really buckle down and give our best efforts to work our plans? If you would like to participate in this challenge, I have a little homework assignment for you to work on between now and next week.

Next Monday after our weigh in, I’ll post asking for everyone’s “homework” to be turned in and then the race will be on! I want you to think very carefully about your answers to the homework. Once you’ve completed the assignment, post your answers where you will see them daily. Read your answers when you wake and before you go to bed. Now, without further ado….your homework:

Reasons I MUST change:

  1. example: “improve my health”

By December 25, 2006 I will: (give specific/realistic goals)

  1. example: “lose 12 pounds”

List 5 accomplishments needed to reach my Goal(s):

  1. example: “drink a minimum of 64 oz per day”

Remember, we’re not posting our answers until next Monday. Use this time to really reflect on what your goals are and how you will reach them.

So, who will join me?

Edited to add: You do NOT have to be a team member to participate in this challenge.

8 Comments »

  1. Good idea, Blair. A Christmas present to ourselves - that’s what it is!!

    Comment by blestwithsons — September 25, 2006 @ 10:41 am

  2. I will join you. I think short terms goals would be good right now. I feel so overwhelemed sometimes at just EVERYTHING in life (mini whine).

    Thanks Blair.

    Comment by Kat — September 25, 2006 @ 10:55 am

  3. Christmas Challenge…

    Trackback by Scribblings by Blair — September 25, 2006 @ 11:06 am

  4. Yep Blest! A Christmas present indeed!

    Hooray Kat! Glad you’re joining me!

    Comment by Blair — September 25, 2006 @ 11:15 am

  5. Sounds a great way for me to get started - I know I want and need to lose weight, but I’m not sure the best ways to go about it - this will make me think that all through and hopefully make it achievable. I’m joining in.

    Comment by Debs — September 25, 2006 @ 1:00 pm

  6. I’m in!!

    Comment by Tami — September 25, 2006 @ 1:26 pm

  7. Awesome Debs and Tami!! This is gonna be great ladies!

    Comment by Blair — September 25, 2006 @ 1:44 pm

Another pic (Tami)

I thought that Blest started a great thing by posting a pic of before and now. I don’t have a before I started loosing weight but I do have a now. Hey, since I just joined on with OWOA I think it is appropriate. This is me last night after I put my p.j’s on. Yes, that is football on in the background. Very little else exist in my husbands life come NFL season?

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photo_092406_001.JPG My dearest was making me laugh. Sorry about the forced closed mouth smile while trying to contain my laughter! Whose next?

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  1. Hi there Tami! Great to see you! And I think you deserve major kudos for putting it “all” out there! You go girl!!!

    I can’t post full length shots yet- mine have all been swimsuit pictures and that is just NOT gonna happen online. :razz:

    Comment by blestwithsons — September 25, 2006 @ 8:36 am

  2. Tami - I so admire you for doing that! Good to “meet” you!!!

    Comment by Kat — September 25, 2006 @ 9:31 am

  3. Welcome to the group Tami! You are very brave girl :o ) I haven’t taken befores since after my daughter was born and like Blest, I’m not wearing much….not gonna post em lol. Maybe I’ll look for a clothed photo (although I don’t allow too many pics of myself these days).

    Looking forward to continuing this journey with you!

    Comment by Blair — September 25, 2006 @ 10:30 am

Hip Hip who-weigh

You know… Leann and I are the ONLY people who have put their pictures on this site… I might have to wield my sceptre and make some decrees! :razz:

Anyway. I bow to the will of the people and present my new haircut - and my new face. First…here is the old face. startphoto.jpgThis picture was taken July 25th on the first day of my South Beach life.Click if you want to see it bigger…I know I don’t! :lol:

Now here is my new hair and new face - taken just a few short moments ago…

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I still have a long, long weigh to go. And I am impatient to get there! But I find comparing these two photos rather encouraging.

Ahem. Now. I don’t suppose anyone would care to join me in such exhibitionist behavior???

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  1. I will join you however I am going to be more daring and get my husband to do a body shot! Yeppers…a body shot. NOT, I repeat NOT in a swimsuit or sports bra though. I’ll get him to do it tomorrow.
    Hair cut is very hip!

    Comment by Tami — September 23, 2006 @ 8:32 pm

  2. Oh, I love the haircut! And that jawline - girl, your face is SLIM! Only I’m afraid of what I may have gotten myself into by asking for that picture. I tell you what, when I reach my next short-term goal (270), I’ll post a before (333) and after pic. Deal?

    Comment by Carrie — September 23, 2006 @ 8:49 pm

  3. Fantastic haircut!

    Comment by anne — September 23, 2006 @ 9:11 pm

  4. Yes - that’s what I noticed…the jawline (the haircut is darling).

    In my family…well, my sister weighs 110 and had a double chin - we call it “Grandma’s chin”

    Comment by Ellen — September 24, 2006 @ 4:42 am

  5. I love the haircut, and the new face :-)

    Comment by Debs — September 24, 2006 @ 6:40 am

  6. You look great! The haircut is too cute. And yes, your face is thinner. Way to go girl!

    I never took a before pic, so I don’t think I can join you in posting.

    Comment by Anita — September 24, 2006 @ 6:48 am

  7. I LOVE it!!!! You look terrific!

    I haven’t been doing so well on my diet, so it’ll be a while before I post any pictures!

    Comment by Kimberly — September 24, 2006 @ 8:08 am

  8. I love the hair. You look great. I’m so proud of you.

    Comment by Julie — September 24, 2006 @ 9:21 am

  9. Ok girl!!! You are lookin’ all cute and, and, and… THAT NECKLACE!!!!! So perfect for that top… I may be sending the boys away next weekend - at least the grown man and the oldest boy - and I might be able to come and see your cute self on Saturday!!! Can I come, huh,huh,huh….??? *jumps up and down excitedly*

    Comment by Leann — September 24, 2006 @ 2:54 pm

  10. You look great Blest! I can see a huge difference!

    Congrats on the weight loss! To all you ladies! You guys are awesome!

    Comment by Bethany — September 24, 2006 @ 3:46 pm

  11. OH, and I forgot to say what a cute haircut you have dear! Looks great!

    Comment by Bethany — September 24, 2006 @ 3:47 pm

  12. Love the haircut, it is REALLY good!!!! Your face is so tiny in the 2nd picture - I’m so happy for you! You are quite a brave person to put your pic up on the net - I don’t know if I could :)

    Comment by Kat — September 25, 2006 @ 9:21 am

  13. You are just too cute!! Love the hair and I can see a big difference in your face! Awesome work!! I think looking through some photos of myself would make me cry today lol….pmsing.

    Comment by Blair — September 25, 2006 @ 10:32 am

  14. Cute hair!!! :)

    Comment by stephanie — September 25, 2006 @ 1:35 pm

Saturday 23 September 2006

Zip A Dee Doo Dah!

Zip A Dee Yay! My oh my what a wonderful day!

First, I got my hair cut. And for the first time in years I actually liked looking at my face while she cut my hair. Plus, it’s a great haircut - and one of my proverbs is Never underestimate the power of a woman’s haircut. Then I went to the mall. I had to because my youngest son tried to eat my wedding rings and they are squashed, so I took them to a jeweler to be fixed. While there, I decided to look for a new church outfit since I don’t have any fall/winter dresses. I tried on a slew of 18s in J.C. Penneys. Not women’s 18s mind you, just regular ones. They were too big! Then I went, for the first time, into Coldwater Creek. Not only did they have neat clothes and incredible customer service, but they also had a dress that I liked. I picked up the 18 - and the saleswoman who is my new best friend - said “Oh No no no. You are NOT an 18. How about the 16 petite?” (I think that’s kind of a SPUNK, don’t you?) This incredibly brilliant and discerning lady was very right. It fits and it looks COOL.

newdress.jpgI know that many of you will understand that this was a rather emotional day for me. There’s is nothing quite like the knowledge that maybe, just maybe, I can shop in “normal” people stores now. Maybe I don’t have to go to Lane Bryant anymore (except for bras). Maybe I can avoid the Womens’ sections from now on…

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  1. Blest that is SO AWESOME for you!!! You have been working so hard and now you are starting to reap the benefits. I think we should have a Lane Bryant coupon burning party (unless they are for intimates of course)!

    Comment by Mandi — September 23, 2006 @ 4:20 pm

  2. Yee-haw! How fun, how exciting!

    Comment by lady laura — September 23, 2006 @ 5:57 pm

  3. Oh, and uh, the haircut? How short did you go? What does it LOOK like?

    Comment by lady laura — September 23, 2006 @ 6:39 pm

  4. Sounds like a terrific day! And we want pictures of the haircut, lady!

    Comment by Carrie — September 23, 2006 @ 6:40 pm

  5. What a fun day! The day that my Mom took me to Lane Bryant and the clothes were to big was HUGE!! Praising with you. :)

    Comment by stephanie — September 23, 2006 @ 6:45 pm

  6. So cool! And let’s see a pic of that haircut.

    Comment by Anita — September 23, 2006 @ 6:53 pm

  7. Blest how awesome!!!

    Comment by Tami — September 23, 2006 @ 8:30 pm

  8. That’s really fab. I’m looking forward to a day like that. Hopefully it won’t be too far ahead.

    Comment by Debs — September 24, 2006 @ 5:59 am

  9. If that outfit was my size (someday!!!) I would so run to your state and TAKE it! It’s beautiful!

    Kudos on the good shopping news - sounds like you had a fabulous day!

    Comment by Kat — September 25, 2006 @ 9:20 am

I'm in (Tami)

Good Morning everyone! I’m Tami and I’m now an “official” part of the team! I really am just too excited. I talk to my husband about OWOA quite often. I have been following the group since about 2 weeks. Yes…you guys have “groupies”! When I started following along my weight was at 229. I am now at 212 with much more to go. I have been following Atkins however tomorrow I will officially switch to South Beach. I miss whole grains and fruits. Well, it’s time to hit the treadmill (the Autumn season with all it’s rain has come in hard).

Thank you so much for having me here.

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  1. This seems like a good time to stop being a lurker and actually say hello. You ladies are inspiring me to do something about my weight. I don’t actually know for certain what my weight is at the moment (I don’t own any scales, or rather I have some that don’t work!) but I know that being a size 26 is not good, and that my health is definitely being affected. There, I’ve said it. Now I’d better start doing something about it. Would it be ok once I’ve got some scales if I started joining the weigh-ins? Cos it would be great to have some people to be accountable to. Oh, a little bit about me. I live in London, Uk and I’m 24. I don’t have a fulltime job at the moment, but I’m doing some childcare for people at my church.

    Comment by Debs — September 23, 2006 @ 7:53 am

  2. Please do join in on the weigh in’s or any other topic. Just leave a comment. That’s how I started :-)

    Comment by Tami — September 23, 2006 @ 8:32 am

  3. Cool! (Note to self - buy some scales asap!)

    Comment by Debs — September 23, 2006 @ 8:41 am

  4. Welcome, Tami!

    Comment by Carrie — September 23, 2006 @ 10:00 am

  5. Welcome aboard Tami!!!!

    Comment by Mandi — September 23, 2006 @ 11:21 am

  6. Yay Tami!

    Debs, did you get my email??

    Comment by blestwithsons — September 23, 2006 @ 3:15 pm

  7. Welcome, Tami.

    And Debs too!

    Comment by lady laura — September 23, 2006 @ 5:58 pm

  8. Welcome to you both. We all definitely need encouragement to eat healthy and exercise!

    Comment by Anita — September 23, 2006 @ 6:56 pm

  9. Welcome to both Tami and Debs! I, too, am a lurker like Debs, but I’ve enjoyed starting to post at least for the weigh-ins (except this past week… oops. Sorry, Blest.) Anyway, I was just reading the bios (since there’s new people), and I noticed how many of you like to walk and are using walking as a form of exercise. In case anyone needs some extra motivation in the form of something to work towards, I wanted to mention the Avon Walk for Breast Cancer — it’s a 2-day walk (a full marathon — 13.1 miles each day!), and it is by far the best thing that I have done this year. (No, I don’t work for Avon; I have no affiliation with them, either.) Each participant raises money; the walk I participated in this past year raised over $8 million that goes part towards research and part towards providing care for women who can’t afford regular mammograms. Anyway, just in case any of you need some extra motivation in terms of exercising towards a goal, I wanted to mention it. The walkers (all amazing people) I met this past year were of all shapes and sizes, too. You can find more info about it at www.avonwalk.org. (Blest, sorry if this is too much of an endorsement — I just thought it might be helpful if someone was interested). More than anything, if people were interested in doing it, you could all meet up in one city and spend a weekend of fun together :)

    Just a thought. I’ll continue to lurk and add my comments and weigh-ins….

    Comment by anne — September 23, 2006 @ 8:39 pm

  10. Tami and Blest thanks for your emails. I’ll definitely start commenting and joining in the weigh ins (once I get some new scales). I just wanted to say that even as a lurker reading your posts it’s been great to see the amazing support you give each other. I’m just so excited about being a part of that. Oh, also I’ve just started a second blog (www.bigtobeautiful.blogspot.com) so that I actually have to write stuff down about how things are going.

    Comment by Debs — September 24, 2006 @ 6:03 am

  11. Tami-

    WELCOME! I’m so glad you are here! Looking forward to getting to know you and have fun with you on SB.

    Comment by Kat — September 25, 2006 @ 9:19 am

Alright already (blest)

You know… Leann and I are the ONLY people who have put their pictures on this site… I might have to wield my sceptre and make some decrees! :razz:

Anyway. I bow to the will of the people and present my new haircut - and my new face. First…here is the old face. startphoto.jpgThis picture was taken July 25th on the first day of my South Beach life.Click if you want to see it bigger…I know I don’t! :lol:

Now here is my new hair and new face - taken just a few short moments ago…

haircut.jpg

I still have a long, long weigh to go. And I am impatient to get there! But I find comparing these two photos rather encouraging.

Ahem. Now. I don’t suppose anyone would care to join me in such exhibitionist behavior???

14 Comments »

  1. I will join you however I am going to be more daring and get my husband to do a body shot! Yeppers…a body shot. NOT, I repeat NOT in a swimsuit or sports bra though. I’ll get him to do it tomorrow.
    Hair cut is very hip!

    Comment by Tami — September 23, 2006 @ 8:32 pm

  2. Oh, I love the haircut! And that jawline - girl, your face is SLIM! Only I’m afraid of what I may have gotten myself into by asking for that picture. I tell you what, when I reach my next short-term goal (270), I’ll post a before (333) and after pic. Deal?

    Comment by Carrie — September 23, 2006 @ 8:49 pm

  3. Fantastic haircut!

    Comment by anne — September 23, 2006 @ 9:11 pm

  4. Yes - that’s what I noticed…the jawline (the haircut is darling).

    In my family…well, my sister weighs 110 and had a double chin - we call it “Grandma’s chin”

    Comment by Ellen — September 24, 2006 @ 4:42 am

  5. I love the haircut, and the new face :-)

    Comment by Debs — September 24, 2006 @ 6:40 am

  6. You look great! The haircut is too cute. And yes, your face is thinner. Way to go girl!

    I never took a before pic, so I don’t think I can join you in posting.

    Comment by Anita — September 24, 2006 @ 6:48 am

  7. I LOVE it!!!! You look terrific!

    I haven’t been doing so well on my diet, so it’ll be a while before I post any pictures!

    Comment by Kimberly — September 24, 2006 @ 8:08 am

  8. I love the hair. You look great. I’m so proud of you.

    Comment by Julie — September 24, 2006 @ 9:21 am

  9. Ok girl!!! You are lookin’ all cute and, and, and… THAT NECKLACE!!!!! So perfect for that top… I may be sending the boys away next weekend - at least the grown man and the oldest boy - and I might be able to come and see your cute self on Saturday!!! Can I come, huh,huh,huh….??? *jumps up and down excitedly*

    Comment by Leann — September 24, 2006 @ 2:54 pm

  10. You look great Blest! I can see a huge difference!

    Congrats on the weight loss! To all you ladies! You guys are awesome!

    Comment by Bethany — September 24, 2006 @ 3:46 pm

  11. OH, and I forgot to say what a cute haircut you have dear! Looks great!

    Comment by Bethany — September 24, 2006 @ 3:47 pm

  12. Love the haircut, it is REALLY good!!!! Your face is so tiny in the 2nd picture - I’m so happy for you! You are quite a brave person to put your pic up on the net - I don’t know if I could :)

    Comment by Kat — September 25, 2006 @ 9:21 am

  13. You are just too cute!! Love the hair and I can see a big difference in your face! Awesome work!! I think looking through some photos of myself would make me cry today lol….pmsing.

    Comment by Blair — September 25, 2006 @ 10:32 am

  14. Cute hair!!! :)

    Comment by stephanie — September 25, 2006 @ 1:35 pm